I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 months now. And I've gotten to know a lot about her past relationships. I can honestly say I am in love with this woman and just thinking about her having been with other men and all she experienced with them kind of bothers me. Did I mention she has a 4 yrd old and of course a baby daddy who is around often b/c of the kid. She dated him for 8 years, he took her virginity and they were high school sweethearts. Long story short they hate each other, even though the guy wants her back but she won't give him the time of day. She really loves me and we are so right for each other but I feel like I will always live in her exs shadow. I can never be more important than the father of her child,who she went through so much with and have so much history Together. They have split up in the past for as long as a year. She dated other people but in the end went back to him. Even though she tells me she can't imagine being apart from me and how much she loves etc, I feel like very deep inside he's the one in her heart and always will be simply for all they have been through. I know its irrational to be upset about something like that but I am, and its kind of pulling me away from her.. Has anyone else felt like this or am I being delusional?