Would You Cheat On Your Partner?

I've only been in one serious relationship before.  Despite a few (very good looking) opportunities to cheat on her, I didn't.
 
but I'm also not gonna act like there's no chance I'll cheat on a girl in the future.  Idk what I'm gonna do.  I might.
 
And I feel like there's certain situations where it's bad...  and other situations where you know, shit happens.  If you're going out and piping random ass girls and then getting home at night to your clueless wife and acting like nothing happened, that's kind of grimey.  But if you're 18/early 20s and you've been seeing a girl and you met another one on a saturday night...  it's not really that deep.  shit happens.
 
and if you're not actually telling anybody else you're committed to them in the first place, it's not cheating.  and cheating on somebody doesn't automatically mean you're a bad person.  that's a little too judgemental for me.

 

I have been cheated on by EVERY guy except the one im currently with. For some reason even being the girl who wants screw every night and treat them like a king leads them to cheat. I will NEVER cheat, i know how it feels on the other end and i wouldnt want even my worst enemy to feel like that. I believe if you dont want to be with someone leave them and do as you will. Cheaters dont see that when you cheat its not just cheating you are changing the way the other person sees people and relationships now and may just ruin the future relationships. I was smart enough to know that my exs were just young assholes that wanted whatever came there way.

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Never, unless she dies.

 

no fucking way. i'm not about that drama. too busy trying to achieve my own goals to try to do the dance with more than one person. ain't got time for dat shit, bahahahah.

 

Iv expierenced both sides and both sides hurt just the same.

Judge me.

 

Screw cheating

 

I wouldnt and couldnt cheat on my wife. I look but dont touch. She even looks with me. I got married when i was 21 but had been going out since i was 18. Shes a cougar and pounced on me haha. Weve been together 9years..

 

I have been cheated on and hated it. When I was in my teens yea I would have but never really portrayed that I planned on being overly loyal. Now my girl now theres no way i would ever cheat on her. Shes great and we live a great life together I would hate to loose it.

 

I did it when I was young and stupid, and before that was cheated on. 
 
I would never do it again

 

No I wouldn't. I've been married 21 years to an awesome woman that made me forget that there's any other women in the world. I was tested on this recently. A person I work with, a very attractive female put to me like this and this is verbatim, " I really wouldn't mind being your woman on the side". I basically blew it off and didn't make a move. Now for some reason you doesn't really talk to me anymore, just bare minimum work stuff and she's on her way, I think I may have hurt her feelings. My integrity is something I will not part with.

 

i don't believe in monogamy but cheating is very fucked up

 

i already posted above that i would never cheat--which i still 100% stand by. if i were in a mutually exclusive relationship with someone, i would not cheat if given the opportunity. if i had any desire to actually cheat on someone, i might as well break up with them. i don't play games with people. i've been played before and that shit ain't very fun.
 
that being said, i wouldn't classify my man thinking about other girls or looking at other girls or watching porn as cheating. that's stupid, to be honest. i can't control what people are and aren't thinking. even i look at other people and have my own fantasies.
 
but the moment they start changing thought into action...that's not cool with me. 

 

I've been cheated on and I've cheated.  I was not good to my first wife when she was my gf I cheated on her every chance I got then once she was my wife I was with a prostitute in A. Dam and one other girl.  Yes I'm not a good person and we all get what we deserve so no need to hear that.  I wouldn't do it any more I'm a bit more mature of a person now and I think it's kind of lowly so people change maybe your friend will man up and meet the right girl some day.

 

 
grow a pair if you're still with her why don't ya?

 

I would never cheat on Mary Jane. She's always there when I need her and her body is a 10+. Why would I cheat on that?

 

I could do it to someone that I was dating and wasn't special to me. I could not do it to someone I truly loved.

 

 
Your face is against the rules!
 
Leave why don't ya???

 

much respect for the brent guy but like andrew ive cheated on every girl i've been with. im a dirty dog. 

 

 
Haha, what is the reason for cheating on every girl you've been with? What was it that she was lacking? I'm not trying to accuse you of anything, I'm just wondering. Guys and girls are so different, it's crazy. I have a lot of dude friends and I know this happens at our age, unfortunately, which makes me not fully trust anyone I've been with...
 
Makes me sad, bahahah.

 

just meant to be alone. what do girls see in me.? nothing! so thats my excuse