okay so I have a question for all you women out there! So this girl and I have been fooling around for a little over a month and long story short we’ve fooled around before but nothing like this. So prolly about a few weeks after we start hooking up she tells me that she ordered a toy off the internet. Which at first you know I am excited to try something new in bed with her! N so it arrives and it wasn’t but a few days after when I was able to make it over to her house and then we were able to experiment. And honestly it was awesome to see her just in a state of pure exctacy So I mean I was all for her having it at first. Then I noticed one night she was too tired to want to fool around so when the morning came I tried to fool around n she wasn’t in the mood. So I left and came back earlier that day only to find her toy sitting at the edge of her bathroom tub as if she has recently used it. N i hollared ot the bathroom “hey you left your toy out!!” In a joking manner Which she teased back saying she lived alone so what’s it matter Basically tho it was like she had waited for me to leave so she could use her toy....? Like if she was in the mood you’d think that the real deal would turn her on more right? I’ll I guess I am just feeling a little like I’ve been replaced or like put in the back seat almost. Like I’m jus there for company. I mean I understand she knows her body better and maybe she doesn’t want to get weird with me anymore cuz she has her cool new toy Anyway it makes me feel like I am not good enough for her. So how do I fix this ? I’m tired of feeling like a little bitch. But I also am tired of feeling like I am coming in second place to a freaking piece of plastic...
Sometimes women like to get themselves off. If she's cool with you watching, she'll prbly be down with you using it on her too. Get freaky, have fun, enjoy life, and don't take things like this too seriously. sounds like you guys aren't dating anyways Just my 2 cents Sent from my LGMP260 using Tapatalk
Then don't be one! LOL maybe she's not getting hers in the long run it usually takes women a lot longer try asking her what she needs you to do. Something ain't right so you need to get to the bottom of it! Find out what she really needs. Then she won't need any of that.
Both of these suggestions will end in him jerking off until he meets some one new, horrible advice man Sent from my LGMP260 using Tapatalk
Well it’s not mine to throw out or else I would. I have tried to bring it up cmduring conversation but it’s always in a joking matter. So maybe I’ll jus kinda attempt to have a real conversation with her. I mean I have used it on her but she doesn’t want me to watch. Accept when I can play it off a certain way like if I ask her to “show me” how she likes it then she will lol but I mean it’s not that I don’t like her using it or anything. I jus thought if anything the toys were like an appetizer where me I would be the main course.... ya know ?
I have used it on her before and she loves it for sure. But I guess I am just like looking for her to show/tell me that she still prefers my sex over an inatimate object lol like I know for a fact that I am better than that. For obvious reason. So i just find myself dumbfounded as I watched her choose to use the toy instead of ask me for a quicky lol
Stop trying to compete with a sex toy, lmao Does your dick vibrate and do exactly what she wants it to? Probably not But that's fine, because she'll want the real thing also Sent from my LGMP260 using Tapatalk
It’s not as though I am unable to satisfy her. Trust me before I came along she didn’t know what “good” or even “decent” sex was. She had never had an orgasm from a partner up until I had showed her what I can do. There were times where (now don’t get me wrong I love using my fingers but I haven’t used them like this since high school so keep that in mind) I could kiss her neck and when I reached down there to tickle her clit she is jus soaking wet and by the time I get a few rubs over the clit she is cumming intensely and over and over. So i mean it’s not like she was ever left unsatisfied. It’s jus a kick to the nite to feel/get shown that she would rather fuck her stupid little toy rather than have a real one the stupid toy is modeled after...
I mean clearly there is no competition. She is going to want whatever she wants. No matter what I jus gotta be the one to give it to her. Whatever it is/she wants. It’s jus kinda hurt my feelings I guess cuz I mean who wants to get told that they arnt good enough? Whether it’s trying out for track, unfit to preform work duties, or anything. It sucks lol But shit. I mean I got my own fleshy like toy I can use so maybe I’ll jus do that. Instead of getting blue balls waiting for her I’ll fuck my own toy n Ill get to leave it out on the bathroom sink maybe even deny her if like she has done to me cuz she already got her rocks off with a toy... I can play hard ball too!! Lol jk I prolly won’t do anything accept jus talk to her about it. Idk what else to do... I jus done coming in second place. Too many times have I been the nice guy. N they always finish last
The same question, but reversed and asked to opposite genders: Her stance: "Does he like porn more than me?" His stance: "Does my girl prefer her new toy over me?" The answer for BOTH questions is "NO", duh. Yes he loves porn, but loves sex with me too. Yes I love my vibrator, but love sex with him too. Sadly though, some guys are so insecure they cant get over a girl using her toy, it's competes with his masculinity. Which is sad and a shame, but it happens alot. Trust me I speak from personal experience here. So the secret is to find a toy that doesn't look like a dick - this type works well. Then he doesn't have anything to be worried about! The truth is women orgasm better with toys. Once the guy gets over himself and learns he can use this non-dick looking vibrator on her, he gets a bonus: He can enjoy a 1st person view down there of all the action. Seriously why are guys to threatened by toys. It's irritating. Anyway, there you go guys: PROBLEM SOLVED!!! Again I speak from experience. Thread closed, problem solved. You're all welcome. Have a nice day.