When to say yes, When to say no:

STORYTIME:
I have a friend named Z in the midwest, where people are considered "nice"

meaning that noone speaks what is really on their mind,
meaning that conversations are really just a bunch of questions that dodge and evade topics.

Last night I was at Z's house. It's wednesday night and his parents aren't home, meaning its a safe spot to roast up.
When me and my friend T showed up at Z's house, we started to all play Mortal Kombat X.

My friend T packed a bowl in Z's bong, then passed it around. Feeling good, My buddy T starts rollin up a few blunts.
While rolling, he explains to us that he is trying to burn through a giant bag of leftover shake, so these blunts are "on-the-house!"

While the night is off to a very good start, I start noticing myself getting higher.
I start to think in increasingly bigger thoughts, and we are all having a great time... until the munchies set in.

Z's house always has loads of food stowed away downstairs and in the fridge. My buddy T must have gotten real hungry, and says something like "Hey I'm gonna grab some chips real quick"

My buddy Z appears to not mind, and accompanies T to the snack room. I follow suit, figuring "boy I guess im pretty hungry"

Stopping in the snack room, food piled up to the walls, T starts grabbing a few snacks. Z starts mentioning to us the different snacks he has, While I sit back and watch for the mean time. (This is question #1, more later) (1.)

Z and T seem to have made their snack choices, with T grabbing a bag of almonds and a bag of chips, Z choosing a bag of chips as well.
I snag a bag of chips off the floor, and we all make our way back to the smoke room to play some cod zombies. We make several more trips to smoke outside on his porch, the outside fresh air feelin great, nice and cool, close to 70 degrees.

Then the second wave of munchies hits.. While playing a match, Scorpion vs. Takeda, someone brought up the fact that "Takeda" sounds like "Tacquito" if you say it fast. (Talk about blazed)

Hearing this, My buddy Z mentions there's tacquitos upstairs, as well as burritos. My first thought hearing that is, "Woah im hungry"

T says "Let's make that happen" and he starts upstairs for the microwave. Z follows, me behind him.

Once upstairs, I sit down at the kitchen island, pullin up a chair and waiting to see what's up with the food plans.

T asks "Where are those tacquitos?"

Z responds, "Outside, in the freezer." and proceeds to go and grab the food.

T then pulls up a chair next to me to sit at the island.

Z comes back in with all manner of microwave food, and begins to cook 4-5 burritos, 4 tacquitos, good stuff, on a press griddle on the counter.

I'm trying to talk to Z about MKX, when I realize that I'm talking to the host, Z, while he prepares food for both me and T.


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The more I think about this situation, the more it sounds like my friend T is mooching off of Z, and it sounds to me like I'm doing the same thing. If you were in this situation, how would you go about it?

In other words, If you were at a friends place, and you got the munchies, are you the type of person to let your buddy prepare food for you while you watch?

I could be overthinking this by 7x, but just something that's been on my mind is how I could have improved this situation.

Thanks blades!

 

So I see that this isnt as big of a deal as i though.. less thinking, more relaxing next time

 

right on blades!

glad you all could make sense of this