I was thinkin when a girl gets with a guy and falls hard for him. If the girl had a partner or two before who were better sexually, how would this affect the relationship? How will it affect the sex life? Now the guy would be a beast in bed, but WHAT IF another guy was better, would you think about him? Do you girls think you would want to temporarily get a brush with the past, or you just wouldnt think about it? Would you imagine yourself with that guy when youre with your guy sexually, or maybe just think about how he was better? Basically, what would be your thoughts if that was going on. Please dont try to sound like an angel! Straight up and real is the way to go.
I was in a similar situation with the girl im currently with now. all i can say is practice is the key. and if she truly has fallen for you, she will be up for some practice haha
Ask the old boyfriend to bang you too. Then you'll know what he does that makes him so good. Now you'll have something to try to emulate. P.S. Try not to shit in the bed when it's over.
Nah, Im not worried at all I wont be able to perform. But the thought lingers sometimes. I broke up with her a year ago and were in the talking stage of getting back together, serious now though. Compared to a year ago, shes gonna be really surprised with me lol.
People aren't necessarily "better" or "worse" in the sack, but vary with their modes of physical communication and pleasure direction. If you want to be better, ask her what she likes. Have her show you where to go. If you spend all your time worrying instead of trying new things you're bound for failure. If a person can't let go of their ex in that respect, they shouldn't really attempt moving on to another person. This is rebound affection and it can lead to false assumptions. See earlier response. If they are not over their past, they can't move into the future. Fantasies are one thing, but that's the thrilling part of being with someone new, new dreams and fantasies. I.e. Out with the old, in with the new. Straight up, imagining yourself with another person is a disservice to both persons engaged in the act. Put sex aside until you're ready to do it without worrying about that type of thing. Work on intimacy and connection, and you'll get over your insecurities. If you or the person your'e with can't wholly concentrate on what you're doing, then you probably shouldn't be doing it. Kind of like operating heavy machinery on ambien. Hope this helps. Keep your head up.
Nah its past rebound, its been a year lol. I know that rebounding feeling, that's not the case now. Some of the things you said will stick in my head though, like just focusing on int. and conn.
this might be a question for the ladies, but to me love is more universal, if she has fallen for you like you have stated, then you might as well be a greek god compared to the other guy, no matter his ability's.
My last ex was a virgin when we met, which SUCKED because he didn't know ANYTHING. I'm not gonna lie, it was awful. I mean he was super excited to learn and stuff, but it was bad for me because I like when a guy takes charge & shows a little dominance in bed. I never really did anything about it..I just dealt with it. I mean there really isn't anything you can do.. But give yourself some credit, if you know the basics then you can kinda just fake the rest. It's all about confidence, man. And if you sense that she's unsatisified, offer to go down on her, or ask what she wants to spice it up. Girls LOVE when you actually care about them & if they get off. Also, if she really does love you then it totally won't matter. My ex sucked in bed, but he was so amazing every where else I didn't care. [not to sound cheesy or anything, I'm being honest] If I was ever unsatisifed, I always had my vibrator. It wasn't worth losing an amazing guy over sex.
This ^^ All the way. Honestly, I really like the guy I'm with and have not thought of my ex, or any guys for that matter, while I'm with him. In fact, when I first started crushing on him I was fooling around with a good friend, it was nothing serious just FWB, and everytime my friend and I fooled around I could not help but think about my crush. And now, 6 months later I'm with my crush, and my FWB is just a friend and I have to say that even though my crush is no where near as talented/experienced as my friend was, I like fooling around with him 10 times better. When you like someone you like everything about them, including their faults. If your lady friend really likes you then I'm sure you're the only man on her mind whether the two of you are watching a movie or playing in bed. Like Cupcake said, if you're worried about your girl not being satisfied just explore her body. Experiment! I'm sure BOTH of you could learn something. Good luck and best of wishes! And if this is really bothering you then maybe you should talk to her about it. Good sex is all about communication.
I don't think you should sell yourself short, by comparing yourself to any of her ex's.. Besides, if she's really into you? She'll work with you in the shack. And I mean, the sex will only get better with practice, right? Right. Good luck.
idk if your a virgin or not? but if so watch a lot of porn...you will learn lots. how do you think i got by the first time
awesome cupcake and infinity said what i wanted to hear. nothing bads going on though lol, we havent fooled around yet but all the signs look really good. and weed im not a virgin. and porn isnt good to copy for real sex..if you want her to cum atleast.
personally, i definitely compare who's better. for me i can tell right off if its even gonna be worth it..
Thats because you would be the proverbial hallway thats been blown open by those of us requiring the "golden tickets," Ms.blowin. It all depends on what she wants though, you got your quiet slow types, all the way to the squirtin', screamin', you can't hit it hard enough types. Well atleast til they wake up ion the morning and are walking a little funny on the way out the door, thats a job well done there sir!