So what's the deal?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by blazinexotic, Apr 4, 2011.

  1. Okay so when I was single I used to want sex a lot. Why? Because I was single and couldn't have it whenever I wanted to. Well I could but I didn't want to put myself out there like that lol

    Now I have a serious boyfriend. I'm in real love for the first time. We have sex usually 5-7 days a week, usually once or twice a day but sometimes more. It's not that I don't like sex anymore but it's not as appealing to me all the time because I know I can get it whenever I want. Some days I just don't want to do it but my boyfriend is a giant hornball and I feel like a bitch turning him down.

    I read a lot of stuff on here about guys wanting a girlfriend that has sex with them multiple times a day but doesn't that shit get boring? I don't get it. Some people say make him wait for it and he'll want it more and then I hear give it to him all the time. Doesn't it get boring?
     
  2. spice it up, roleplay, learn each others fantasies, whips and chains :D

    or fuck anywhere you can, movie theaters, bathrooms, showers, (break into peoples houses and fuck on their kitchen tables) NOT recommended :D

    just try to make it interesting
     
  3. We already do that kind of stuff, I like sex but on average I only like it once a day unless we take a break from it for a few days, then I like it more than once. It just gets boring in general after awhile.
     
  4. Hah! I'm definitely not like you... at all, I could have sex all day every day with this same guy and I'd never get sick of it... it's just fun and exciting and fuckin crazy! Maybe you need to look at it differently. Look at it as... well you said you're in love right? Look at it as showing that you love this guy in the most intimate way possible. :) It'll never get boring. Also, watch porn before/during sex... good stuff. :)
     
  5. Well with that latina curves in that profile picture he should be horny!
     
  6. Your just over doing it. You SHOULD BE glad your doing it as often as that lmao.

    Try a new routine, make sex be only for weekends, therefore you kind of look forward to it.
    Doing it every day..sorry but lol.
     
  7. Imagine eating mac and cheeze everyday... You'd want to eat something else for a change...

    Same thing.

    But it doesn't mean you're a slut, it's absolutely normal.
     
  8. gets boring fast, yes. sometimes i only do a girl once.

    but in your situation your just less horny because your needs are being met. either his needs are higher than yours or his needs are actually wants.
     
  9. If the sex is boring your bf sounds like an amateur bro.
     
  10. I like to change up the location instead of just doing it in his room all the time. Hopefully when it gets nicer out he'll be more open about it. The sex isn't bad at all, it's the best I've ever had and definitely different since I'm actually in love with him which is nice. My boyfriend is only seventeen so that probably explains why he's horny all the time. I just get bored with things in general easily, if I can have it so easily it doesn't appeal to me 24/7 and I don't think sex once or twice a day on average is that bad.
     

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