So I'm seeing this girl - should I tell her that I'm

For sure tell her man if your going to have sex, otherwise it'll be twice as awkward later. I mean don't just randomly blurt out IM A VIRGIN, but if the convo goes that way or your about to fuck, say it. Most girls actually kinda like it, but I don't really see a chick going HOLY SHIT and freaking out over it.

And just be straight forward about that, it shows your not like emotionally odd haha

 

Do you guys fool around and talk about sex and what you wanna do to each other and that kinda stuff alot? Me and my girl are ALWAYS talkin bout sex and how we wanna fuck eachother, positions ect. I mean in all honesty, if you just TALK about it and get it out in the open towards the beginning, it won't be uncomfortabel to talk about ever again. Then it should be easy to bring up the V situation if you so choose..... With my past girlfriends we never really talked about sex or anything like that, we just kinda did it, enjoyed it, and that was that. And let me tell you, TALKING about it is SO much better than just keeping it sorta 'hidden' if that makes sense. After sex giving your partner props for something they did, and recieving props back, KNOWING that you BOTH had a 'FUCKING' phenominal time! Is the best!

So I guess what I'm tryin to say is: TALK to her bout it! Unless she's a shallow whore, she 'SHOULD' think it's kinda cute!

 

Call her up and tell her what you just told us. That pure honesty bro and most chicks dig that

 

Wrap the rascal twice and plow it like a beast!

 

+rep for you man, i lol'ed hard

 

Me personally, when I lost my virginity I told the girl I was dating at the time that I WAS a virgin. And she WANTED to take it from me, but WOULDN'T have sex with me untill I said it straight to her face "I WANNA FUCK YOU"..... So I did, and then I did! lol, I think your just thinking way to much about it!...

Ok word. Well then just randomly bring up sex when you guys are chillin. Watch a movie where 2 people start to fuck. It doesn't have to be like a porno, something funny like 'along came polly' or whatever. And when they start to fuck say something to start the conversation. For example, in that movie Ben Stiller smack's Jennifer Aniston's ass right before they're about to fuck. At this point you could laugh at what happened and then ask her, "Do you like being spanked?" and BAM. Conversation started! See, if you can get her to talk about sex with you, you will find out how comfortable she is with the whole situation. Some girls I've dated NEVER talked about sex like I said earlier, but man if you can get a girl that doesn't have a problem talking about sex, then your golden!

So Objective: Get her to start talking about sex, once you do you will see how comfortabel, or uncomfortable she is talking about it. Then you can decide weather to pull out the V card or not. Ya feel me?

Oh, and do you want to date this chick? Or do you just wanna get your dick wet? I thought you 2 were dating, guess I was wrong. Still doesn't change anything I said tho!

 

Even if your baked as a potato, remember to wrap your shit... you dont want kids, do you? anyways, good luck.

+rep for having the balls to admit it on GC

 

like everyone else out here i'm gonna tell you to be straight with her. Whether you wanna wait till you guys are doing stuff or just say it is up to you

I doubt she's all of a sudden going to lose all sexual desire for you if u tell her your a virgin. Chances are she'll be flattered that you told her. Plus you could always play the "i was waiting for the right girl and i think i found her" shit. Virgin males over 20= rare breed. All women i've ever met loved de-virginizing guys. Except for the 28+ crowd. Those chicks just wanted to get fucked good and not worry about teaching....

 

so did you tell her or what?

 

hmm. like other posters said her reaction could go either way. my advice would be that if you do want to lose your virginity to this girl, just be as confident as possible in your love makin' and if you feel so inclined, maybe tell her just before/afterward.

i had to tell a girl i was about to have sex with that i was a virgin and it wasn't a big deal really. we had strong feelings for each other and she said she would wait until marriage lol but i was like nah, it's basically just a burden. let's do this lol. we broke up years later

 

this is how it's done

 

good luck.

Just from someone who had the exact same circumstances. I didnt tell her because i had been shut down before but thats not to say this chick wouldnt have been different. I ended up in this situation because i was raised with strict moral rules and didnt begin deciding morality for myself until i was about 20. I didnt loose my virginity til i was 22 because i would try to hook up with girls casually and when i told them it was my first time they wouldn't want to do it because they didnt want it to turn into a commitment and they said it should be with someone special. Needless to say after a couple shut downs like that I ended up hanging out with a girl and after a week or so it started to get serious. She made me wait a few times before she put out but she never asked about my prior experience so I never brought it up. We had sex and after the 45 second show I kinda started laughing and told her. She thought it was funny too and wouldn't believe me at first. It kinda became a joke and we ended up going out for a couple months before we split up for totally not sex related reasons. So if you want my opinion it might not hurt telling her and I'm sure if she does care about it will be fine. If you just want to get laid, don't tell her unless she asks. If she asks its because shes scared that your a man whore so being a virgin will be a good thing lol.

 

Or could it be for THIS reason?????

Uh oh..... Now I've confused him...

 

snap son, dont know what to tell you. but say somethin like, you wanna break my streak? i dunno just try it