GC, I know that I am a horrible kisser. How can I get better? It just never came naturally for me. I need lessons or something. I need to know everything to do. Step by step. Yes, I'm that bad. Its pretty embarassing. I'm good at everything else (especially oral) but I just can't kiss for shit. And the problem is, since I can't kiss, most girls just assume I won't be good at anything else.
I forgot to mention, I might be hanging out with my ex girlfriend today. We could fool around. Not sure.
Practice. Practice. Practice. When I was 11, I had the luxury of a FWB thing sorta. I wasn't too great at first, but me and her both got better. We don't talk much anymore.:|
Man, just follow the girl. That's all I ever did at first and now I get compliments on my kissing from most girls I kiss. It comes to you. But it's not even that big of an issue to worry about.
Try to keep your mouth about as open as the other person. If they go for a quick closed mouth peck, don't give them a gaping whole to get sucked into. Light lip nibble is fun. Move when they move, tongue when they tongue. That's all I got.
this, especially if you trying to make a good impression and want the girl to think your a good kisser. There are girls who don't use much tongue and others who do the whole tongue wrestling thing. See what they like and adapt if you feelin' a lil insecure and want to play it safe.
I still am pretty confused. I tried following the girl last time and that went... horribly. The thing I am most confused about is... How do I know when to use tongue? And what exactly do I do with it?
If you want me to be honest. Tell the girl that your going to hook up with "Okay, I am a terrible kisser and I really need help. Would you be willing to teach me? Not trying to give you a stupid pick up line, just being honest." Girls go nuts for that shit when they can be in control. If you don't want to do that (but I highly reccomend you do) I would just suggest, hmmm, honestly, it is tough to explain to you how to kiss well. For some people it just comes naturally. I really wouldn't take kissing advice over a forum. It is hard to put it into words when typing it out. I had just typed up something for you but deleted it because it just gets confusing when you can't visualize it. Honestly bro, your best bet is to just be honest and tell her that your bad at kissing and you want her to teach you. She will be excited I am sure of it. Best of luck bro! I really wish you well, and I really suggest you take my advice.
Kiss the titties first. OR Watch porn...some amateur where they are really doing more than fucking..lol
Men do not follow in kissing. Start slow, feel her out and see how comfortable she is...Then strike, Daniel-Son.
Is this seriously like the third grade man? Just relax OP, kissing is really not a big deal. Think of the bright side, if you're not an experienced kisser, girls won't think you're a man whore with a possible STD.
i kinda did the snake thing with my tongue while making out, and then usually we'd meet in the middle and she'd do the same thing occasionally. (with all the girls ive been with). i just...go at it, idk. lol. but if you get intense with it...good things will happen xD