Should I give up on women?

Alan, what do you look like? A well taken care of man is the first thing women will look for. There is a lot of strong competition out there, money is available to people who attend college. If they can afford college, they can afford to look very nice.

Regardless of your weight, stature or build.. A clean haircut, well dressed eyebrows and confident smile can put you in the running for many women. Women want to be able to strut their man, they want to be escorted by, walked by and bedded by a groomed man, clean and put together. Women want a man who will reinforce their security.

Now, if you want to go for the "pickiest" of women, or women with the most adjusted standards; you'll have to now incorporate dress and attitude into once fusion. Remember, we are only to people, what people see us as. If we can project the image we want to give off, we can then project the words and attitude to match, therefore becoming our desired image.. even if we do not believe it ourselves. Take the President or King or Prime Minister or it's given organization for example, we are and were fed images of a noble man, or wealthy man and we instantly picture his life is this.. his life is he is well dressed, well suited well taken care of and well guarded. We imagine him still with that status of living as he goes to sleep. But really, dont you think they like to kick back and watch tv with no shoes on, at least one day of the year? People are images, you can be any image you like... To a new and unaware face.

You, my friend, are portraying the friend through your face, through your image. Everything from the way you walk to the movement of your eyebrows is perceived by the brain of the person that is watching you. Make the right move.. and she might just notice you.

 

Can you talk to guys and your friends? Well talk to them the same way, but show interest in them and attraction.

 

You have confidence and self esteem issues. You out the p on the pedestal. I'm not saying you have to be a jerk after you get them but you have to think of it as nothing no pressure and scheme in their on their p like its for your use. After that you can treat them good but you have no idea what you are doing. Just say I'm going to _ with some friends do you want to shower with me and we can go together?

 

Just be a man and fuck them. Look up suave in the dictionary and work out and look good and have confidence. College girls are easy. Just get them fucked up how hard is that? I think you have selfish tendencies you don't want to get hurt.

 

Hey man, girls in FL are stuck up as hell. Don't be to down. Girls can read body language and a whole lot of other things by the way you act,and appear and they make a lot of things up in their crazy heads in a few seconds of just meeting you or seeing you (We all have primitive human instincts). Thats why its important to feel confident. Talk normal, dress up well ( Check for nose hair < real killer, uni brow, anything that might sway off your A game, hit up the gym twice or 3 times a week. Also don't seem to interested or desperate, its a HUGE turn off and make sure your freindly. But most importantly don't sweat it man! One day you will meet someone you really love. If you have any buddies that hang around with some ladies see if you can't get some introductions (Being picky can also mess things up). And travel man, like I was saying earlier girls in FL... Yeah.....

 

If a girl read this you would have no chance what so ever. You need a drastic change or it's the gay bar for you. ^ is right mostly

 

Seems like you're put together amd your only problem now is over thinking it. Like the others have said.. put them behind you. Youre making them such a big obstacle in your lhead that its turning it into reality.

Im sure youre familiar with self fulfilling complex theory?

Walk into a room with the 100% presumption that women will be attracted to you, but pay lottle attention to them until the time is right. Every situation is different so no ome cam gove you a spot on answer.

A technique the men my in family use is very popular: make a woman feel like you dont even notice her when you walk into a room. For some reason it clicks something inside of them. First impression is key.


Goodluck

 

[quote name='"ATokerNamedAlan"']Well, the thing is I don't go to college in Florida. I live in Florida but I don't go to college there. I go to college in the Northeast/Mid-Atlantic. A lot of the girls here are fine as hell and you'd be hard pressed to find a girl that you could legitimately call "ugly". I know my confidence isn't the best. I've been through the ringer and back with girls and I really don't have much to show for it.

As far as physical looks go, I'm not ugly myself (at least, I don't think so). I'd describe myself as a 6 foot 2 Caucasian male with brown hair and brown eyes. My paternal grandfather was Mexican with roots in Spain, so I tan much easier than the average white person. I weigh about 165 pounds and I go to the gym about three times a week which is enough to be toned. I alternate between short hair and long hair at various times and I feel that I look fine in both. My style is definitely good, I don't dress shabbily or anything.

I have a good set of friends at college, mostly guys but I'd still like to get to know more girls and such. Still, since I'm a senior, I don't know if it would be worth it. I also know that if a girl read this post she'd be turned off. However, that's the purpose of the Internet. To talk about issues with relative anonymity.[/quote]
Seems like you are fairly intelligent so be witty. Maybe take a t break for a while. Think about them and what they want. Ask if they want to hang out. Buy them a drink or smoke with them then they suck your dick and balls, not too difficult.

I'm not making fun of you but maybe you should talk to someone. Plus to need to gain some weight you are def built like a typical gay dude. My buddy was 6'2 and 160 and people thought he was def bi curious. Are you mad at your dad? Do you have momma issues? I know when my parents wanted to send me to catholic school I was like hell no

 

why not everyone has their own preferance

 

And again I'm not making fun of you but when I think up Spanish guys the last thing would be not getting girls. They will pound that pussy with their little dicks. Just scheme on them you are too nice. It's natural dude. I hate the phrase man up but I think it applies here. Just buy them a drink a be suave and don't be afraid to ask if she wants to hang out at your place before you get stuck. Chat it up. Monkey c monkey do. Learn from the best.

 

best tip: quit giving a fuck about what others think about you, it has helped me a ton have conversation and meet new people. if they like you, they will like you for you and not some facade you put up. if they dont like you, dont sweat it.

 

Yea look at a pair of nuts and ask yourself is this what I want? If the answer is no then get help immediately. I know I def don't want those. Do you not have money or something? Buying a slut a beer is so easy and get fucked up too. At least you can get a bj. Also hang out in groups like if you have some guy friends that know some girls or girls that know hot girls. The point is the more you hang out with them the more comfortable you should be. It should be like you are nice to her and treat her good(spend some money)then you should be good. And get her f up too that helps. Look for hippie looking girls or tall girls. Since you are tall you have something in common. You can tell her how beautiful she is and if she wanted to hang out(make a date) get her number then give her a hug or a kiss. A kiss shouldn't be a problem, depending on the time and place. If you are out already it's simple. Can I take you home? Simple, right? Some guys go to bars at closing time and drag girls home. Well don't do that but you know what I mean. You don't have to spend any money and you have the whole time to chat it up and park. Oh I ran out of gas what are we going to do?

 

Girls like guys that are comfortable in their own skin. At least French girls.

 

Have you ever thought about sleeping with an escort?

 

Careful, a lad on here got addicted to them escorts.