What's good, Grassicty? So now that I am out of college and working I have found meeting girls to be a lot more challenging. I work with people twice my age, who have kids and share very little of the same interests as me. With that said, I recently took a girl out I met at a cafe. We met up for a drink and then went bowling. Long story short, we both had a good time and agreed we should do it again. I'm a little lost as far as ideas for the second date. Any suggestions? I would prefer it be an activity date. I'm leaning towards putt-putt golf, going to the nickel arcade or even just going to the park and throwing a frisbee around. Not to think ahead but I usually leave the third date for more of a traditional dinner and movie so rule that out. Any help is appreciated.