Hey all, could anyone help a brother out and throw some tips on a relationship? I feel sometimes the best advice comes from strangers, their opinion tends to seem unbiased due to not knowing each person. So I'm 24 years old, have a good job, a house, a dog and no kids. I've been with her for about 3 years now, were engaged. I just feel like the relationship is on it's way out, were just not on the same page about anything, and I feel forced to jump on her page of the book, not mine. I'm not a bad person, I support us by paying the majority of the Bills, she pays for groceries though. I cook all the meals for us unless she wants to eat out, and I clean the house, we split dishes and laundry. I am not perfect believe me, but I try to be the best I can, it just seems like it's never enough. She just has the worst attitude when it comes to anything, I should have taken the red flags sooner but I had Hope's it would get better. I was told I had to ask the big question by a certain date or she would leave, and it had to be a certain ring. Which was very expensive. She didn't put it in those words but that's what she meant, she did say "if it's not this size ring I will say no". I was stupid and just went with it, bought the ring, asked the question by a certain date. That along with other minor red flags that points to a very bad future for me. She is an angel around people, my family loves her, they haven't seen her behind closed doors, the way she acts about everything, the way she truly treats me. She is a good girl as long as she gets what she wants, but if she doesnt get what she wants my life is a living hell. I dont know what to do, everything in my mind tells me to leave her now before we get married or have kids, but it's going to be hard as hell, it wont be an easy break up. I just dont know what to do, I cant talk to her about it, the argument will get turned around and be my fault somehow. Honestly most of her family knows how she is and probably wouldn't blame me for leaving, but I care too much and I feel like I wont have the stomach to just rip the bandaid off and tell her to leave. I just dont know what to do, and I feel trapped. Every day I think to myself how much freedom I would have, I could be myself again and not feel like I have to suppress my true self to keep her happy. The idea of not answering to anyone, and only worrying about myself, it seems like it would be a weight off my shoulders. But in the same sentence I would be lonely as hell, an empty house, and nobody to talk to. Advice anyone?