Hmmmm. I really don't know what to tell you. I've had a kid, but I REALLY don't think I could handle anything in the double digits. I can barely handle 7.5... You could look for a chick who's had more then one kid... or who one who had like a 10 pounder. Or you could date a girl and get her to fall in love with you and then have sex. If she loves you'll she'll keep trying. But I'm not going to lie all girls are thinking once they see your dick is "My pussy will never be the same" you can't go from fucking a huge dick back to a small dick... it just won't feel the same. Plus they'd have to not fuck anyone for a while and do kegals like crazy.
I'd become a pornstar quick. I wonder if you'd have any say in the girls you get to fuck.... Daisy Marie would be my first.
i feel your fuckin pain....shit sucks. and for people saying get into porn....its not easy. ive tried. they want you to gay shit first unless you actually know someone.....fuck that shit.
Many have been trolling so far so I'll try to help... I have a friend who told me some stories about a guy like OP... She claimed that she bled later and it really did hurt for her - so watch out. I mean, you need foreplay, furthermore, you need her to actually want to have sex with you (and your dick). Nothing will happen without her wanting it. I think that's what sex always comes down to anyway. Ease it in? Make sure she's wet? Use lube? Get her ready to take it? I don't think there's much to say other then that.
Yeah I take all this into consideration. thanks onelove, you saying her wanting it probably is the main reason. Honestly I think they are just so nervous or afraid that they cant relax. I always try to be careful, last thing I want to do is hurt a girl. Then have her hate me, and ruin it for other men with larger phallus'. unintentional cock block foul
Of all the industries, one would fucking think that the goddamn porn industry would know what it means to be gay (as in not something you can simply turn on with a switch). I mean what the FUCK is this do gay shit first nonsense?!? And I'm not homophobic or anything, I just don't get the logic there (same goes for the women too if it happens to them, which I can only assume). One things for certain. You're NEVER going to find a better actor on the planet than a straight man doing gay porn. Nerves of steel I tell ya...
Hey. So I can add to this. I totally feel you man. My penis is extremely large, too. And it is such a weird, fucking annoying thing to put this out there like this too, b/c people either think you are bragging or they look at you like fuck you how could you complain about that. And I do feel really feel awful about complaining about it some times, because part of me loves being huge, but when it comes down to it that part of me is completely irrational. First off, I'm just enormous flaccid, not much smaller than I am erect. And it's just totally uncomfortable. And I can't tell you how many embarrassing incidents I've had in everyday situations without even getting hard. In most pants or shorts you can generally see the bulge of my dick. I constantly see family members catch sight of this. I ve fallen out of shorts and bathing suits in front of family. But okay that's just embarassment. That's not a major thing when it comes down to it. Sex frankly sucks for me. I have to be forever conscious and I'm aching just to get fully inside. I had one girl outright run out the door. And multiple women have confessed to me sex with me is somewhat unpleasant. But like I said it does weirdly feel good. Just that whole image thing...I like people to see it, I do. I'd be in locker rooms and guys would just be like so intimidated by me. So when I was 20 I decided to start frequenting naturist/nudist beaches. But even that kind of backfired. I still go, but its hard for me not to get aroused with everyone gawking. And okay, I know that's a shitty complaint. It's really the one nice thing though when people are wowed, but it really isnt fun. anyway I understand dude.
Come on guys, if he's serious he got a problem. I use a donut made for that. Also if you use your fingers to relax the vigina for a few minutes it will open up to take the girth. But the length for some girls, they just can't handle it, and if you are not careful you can hurt her. That's why I use the donut thing, when I bust a nut it seems I've got to go all the way in.