i've been smoking since the end of august '08, it started like.. once a week, and towards the peak it got to about 4-5 times a week. they have always been suspicious of me because im the "problem child", not like.. a weird kid, but just, i present more problems to them than my sister. well, so i was smoking upstairs in my room in (yes.. here it comes) my mom's house. i was with my friend and we were smoking a fresh bowl with the window open, which we had done MANY times before. so she walks upstairs, and i hear her coming up the stairs, so i walk out my door and close it and she says "what the fuck is that smell?", so basically i give myself up because there's no denying it at this point.. so she kicks my friend out and calls my dad to come over. basically, my mom has never smoked weed in her life and my dad has for like a year in his HS years. so he, being the realist, told me not to do anything more than weed.. and my mother told me to be drug free, completely, forever. obviously that won't happen. but she's got shit over my head, like.. my room, my laptop, my phone, my BMW that i'm gettng soon, ect).. so she says that if i'm not drug free, i can't get a car. so.. here's my problem. i LOVE smoking, i love the people, the lifestyle, the expereiences, i just love it. and i will not quit. i don't know what to do. she thinks weed is horrible and will ruin my life, which is won't, i'm very careful with it. i just don't know what to do though. i can't see my best friends anymore, she won't give me cash anymore (even for food), she won't let me do anything without checking up on me now, i cannot live like this. especially with summer approaching. i just don't want to give up my life, which is not weed, but the friends, the nights out, the expereiences, just because of this woman's ignorance about the subject. i really need some advice here. thanks.