I'm 24 years old, and I've only had sex with two women in my entire life (although I've had a few chances to have sex with others, but was too drunk to seize the opportunity). Is there something wrong with me that I would rather have sex with a woman I'm in a committed relationship with, as opposed to casual encounters from a club/bar/party? (although I don't actively seek these out, I would have a casual encounter). Perhaps this FreQ needs to get out there more, enjoy the single life, and a variety of beautiful women.
I'm the same way. I'm not really into going to parties and hooking up with random chicks. I wanna get to know her before I sleep with her. We're gentlemen haha
Same here.. Nothing wrong with that. I only had one girl to have sex with and that was going on for 4 years throughout my whole high school year. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Nothing wrong with you at all. I know plenty of people like you. If that's what makes you happy, and the way you want to do things, do that!
Nothing wrong with having a few partners. Just shows that you have respect for yourself and others which is always an excellent thing. As a female, I would rather be with a guy who has never had sex or who has had few partners because it shows they have self control.
Gosh, lay of porn culture and mainstream pop culture for some time and take note that the number of sexual encounters you have in your life is of no importance at all and there is nothing wrong with you.
What this guy said man. Go for quality, not quantity. I am almost 23 and have also only had sex with 2 girls in my life. The connection that is shared with a girl is incredible. I would take meaningful sex with a girl any day over a random hookup. I can get myself off WAY easier than going through a ton of work to just fuck a girl. Trust me man, this is MY choice to not fuck random girls because I HAVE had a few chances. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Us guys that go for the connection before sex are a dying breed. If you honestly want to have sex with more girls, become an asshole. For some reason, most girls like to be treated like shit.
lel...if self respect and control was such an endearing trait, quiet reserved men everywhere would be rolling in pussy
Only had sex with one girl. My girlfriend who broke up with me last September. I am 20 turning 21 in September. Sex with one girl that I loved, and could care the fuck less. What, I need to plow a bunch of pussy? Is that what I need to do with my time and life? Naah. I do my shit and when I find another girl I care about then I'll sleep with her. One night stands aren't my thing. Never have been, never will be. If I had the opportunity would I do it? Eh, probably, but unlike most guys my age it's not what I strive for. Sex isn't a big thing on my mind. I enjoyed the sex I had with my ex, and until my next one I am happy with my life. Why sex is so important to most people these days is beyond me.
Couldn't have said it better myself. I mentioned I had a few opportunities, those were girls I wasn't attracted to. If a girl I was attracted to wanted to just straight up fuck, yeah, I'm probably going to destroy that. Like you said though, it is NOT what I strive for though. If I ever have a one night stand, I'd probably still want to try to pursue a relationship unless she was absolutely horrible in bed . I have definitely noticed we think similarly bro. I'm glad I'm not the only one. Keep it real. Why the fuck can't we all just get along?
I am relieved I'm not the only guy that's like this, that's for sure! At least some of us guys have some respect for women.
Dude, don't sweat it! Sex is not a game where you rack up points for how many partners you have had. You just go with what suits YOU! I was rather picky, too! I had only one boyfriend before I met my hubby- and that was all just holding hands and sneaking kisses. Hubby and I hit it off (he knew who Utnapishtim was, and had heard about genetic cross-over, so he was sufficiently "nerdy" for me) and 3 months later, we got married! That was 1968 and we are still together. Granny
I've only been with one girl and I wish it was zero. Nothing wrong with waiting for the real deal man.
Unfortunately no. The first girlfriend, we only had sex a handful of times (she was a nympho, bisexual, slut), and she was fucking the whole damn town :/ The 2nd one, the mother of my daughter, we had a lot of exciting porn star sex at the beginning of the relationship. Shortly after she got pregnant, the winch started cutting me off to the point of our relationship becoming practically sexless, when we did have sex it was no longer exciting, her libido died, she refused foreplay, she refused me going down on her. It went from one extreme to the other! Both of these chicas were the kind of people who are manipulative, exploitative, have no empathy for other people, they'll fuck you over, laugh about it, and be on to the next one without any remorse. Immature in every sense of the word, and co-dependent. Sadly one has sole custody of our daughter (for now) My next woman wont be like these two. I may or may not even have a few casual encounters just for fun but I'm not going to go out of my way. If it happens, it happens, if not, I still got my right hand.
Turning 20 n only did it with 1 girl, could of lost my virginity to a 3 some with 2 other girls but I decided to wait until my current gf, my choice, I don't care it doesn't matter an it shouldn't for u,doesn't mean anythigs wrong just ur choice,some people choose to be easy n give it up,some choose to be sluts an others have self respect an wait if they so choose,everyone's different theirs no right or wrong number unless u have over like 500 by 21 lol Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Lol there's nothing wrong with you bro! While I've had sex with more than 2 women...I prefer to only have sex within a relationship. My reasoning tho is simply because I HATE condoms!! So I only have sex with women that I trust ie: in a relationship with Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum