Are these types of things avoidable? She's only smoked a few times but every time she did she got really nervous and paranoid. I want to smoke with her, so I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do or she could do to give ourselves a really nice high. I never have problems like that when I smoke.
She needs to smoke less, more often. Females seem especially susceptible to paranoia from weed. As tolerance improves so will the paranoia.