Alright this all started because we got arrested a weekago for havin a pipe (I got assulted by a cop for no reason) I'll now show you the note her mom gave her with guildlines on what she needs to do for her love and support 1. NO contact or communication of Any sort whatever with adam (Me), any friends associated with adam or adams family. 2. Weekly drug wests at your expense ($30.00) with Dr. Agostino's Nurse. 3. Weekly counseling sessions at my expence with Slatoff and ward. Receipts needed for tax rebate. 4. No lies what so ever. You will answere fully and honestly all questions asked by me. you will not lie on any subject, wether it involves adam or not. 5. No Arrests for any reason. 6. You will get involved in church and civic activities to meet new people and improve your quality of friends and life. If you want my love and support, you must live to standards which I believe are important to your futur and happieness. If you connot do this, I cannot give you my support Your failer to not follow all of the above even one time (0% tolerance) will result in your being required to move out of the house immediatly upon my discovery. Just so you know, I intend to actively and randomly check compliances with these rules. How fuckin bull shit is that 3 and a half years and thats how her mom handles it I'm being labled for sure by everyone and i'm having a really hard time dealing with all my problems I dont know what to do I mean shes almost 19 and her mom wants to run her life and i've never pressured anyone into smoking weed I wouldnt ever do that I strongly believe that if you dont want to do something you shouldnt and i've always been that way shes making it seem like my fault and its not. On top of that I'm canadian and living in the US so I may have to move back in 6years because of me getting arrested.