This is long sorry. Summary below. She is an asshole and she is making my life a living hell. I am going to give them a set of times that they can come over. If it were like just my son and his kids I would be fine with them being here all day everyday. But with her I have to have all my armor on cause she's spewing out garbage all the time - and MEAN, but she just thinks she's honest, a realist, she says if what she says hurts someones feelings it isn't her fault, they were the ones to have their feelings get hurt. She doesn't realize she treats me like dirt. She usually does it without thinking. No I do not like her. But I will put up with her because my son chose her for his wife. But I've decided she cannot be in my space in the mornings when I am getting my wake and bake or after 11pm when I blaze, and I get half my weekends without them or Imma start acting really fucking crazy. I'm losing it. But if I give them this "schedule" of my alone time I can get the fuck out of this current depression and get on with my life and start to function normally (well normal for me). She says I can't drink in front of her, yet she's here the whole fucking time in MY house. Her mom (who she lives with)has Alzheimers and is argumentative with her so she comes here during the weekdays to get away from Mom. She is in college and instead of studying etc at the library she comes over to my place. Also they spend most of the weekends here doing laundry and just hanging out They have no power, water etc at their house. They live out in the boonies, but just an hour from us. They are working on it and we have given them money towards it. They used to live with us but decided to move in with her parents. They need to bring the kids to our house when they are sick so they can use the laundry and the bathtub. So, I've sunk into a bad depression where I sleep 16 hours a day and hang out in my room until they leave or I get hungry. I'm bipolar and my shrink won't up my anti-depressant until I tell the kids I want them over less. I feel guilty. I don't wanna do it. But it is really effecting me badly not having alone time or some weekends just hubby and me. Sorry this was so disjointed. I am very emotional over this situation. Am I right in needing my time too? She won't let me drink or smoke in front of the kids and they are over almost every day. They meet here almost every day after school and work and decide if they are staying out or not. Summary She's an asshole She's over all the time and I get no alone time for me or hubby. I am seriously taking hits to my health because of this. I am giving the family a schedule of when they can come over I feel guilty How does you're family get along?