If we are the sum of our experiences, Then the person who we become as we grow through this life, is molded and manipulated and entirely created by the things that we do and experience. Now if all this is true....what about the shit you cant remember? Are your experiences a part of who you are, even when you don't or cant remember them? I have huge chunks of memory missing. As some of you already know, this is because of some rare type of epilepsy and has nothing to do with being a pothead. So what I am trying to comprehend is...... Are those things I did and cannot remember still a part of who I am? Or because they are just blank spots from my perspective, is the only way those times effect me based on what I think and feel about not being able to remember?