Now before you guys say how stupid I am and etc, I already know I am and I regret ever meeting this women but here is my story. I want to know if you guys think this women is trying to put her "baby" on me and make me think I'm the father. So to start out, I met this 37 year old women online mid April of this year. To be exact I met her on April 14/15th in person and we hooked up that night. After that we met again about 2 or 3 more times all hooking up. Now all the times we hooked up I've never used a condom ( stupid I know) but I did let her know the first night we met that I didn't have a condom and if that is ok with her. Now she told me that's fine cause she's on birth control but now I don't really know cause she's lied to me a bunch of times ever since we met. Last time I saw her was on April 30th so I was only seeing her for a little over 2 weeks. I've met my fair share of women from online but this women takes crazy to a whole other level. First after the first night we met she kept calling me and to be honest I don't like talking on the phone and prefer to text. I let her know that the second or third time we met and yet she kept calling still and texting me a whole bunch about why I'm not picking up my phone. Keep in mind we aren't girlfriend and boyfriend and I've only met her once and she's doing this already so that gave me a red flag about her. Also about a week after meeting her she kept trying to find out where I lived. She said she has my license plate and that she will know where I live. That really made me want to stop talking to her. After the last time I saw her on April 30th, I never texted or spoke to her after that. Then out of nowhere about 2 weeks later on May 14/15th, I get a text from her asking what my last name is. I asked her why she wanted to know and she just said she wanted to know. I never used my real name on my online profile so she doesn't know my real first name and I also gave her a fake last name so she doesn't actually know my real name just the fake one I gave her (thank god). After I gave her a fake last name she texts me back saying "oh by the way I'm 5 weeks and something days pregnant" and she says I'm the father. Now at first I really did think I was the father cause I didn't use condoms but I texted her saying I thought she was on birth control. She didn't say anything about that until later when she said she might've missed a week but I have no idea if she's telling the truth or not. Now my question is how much possible is she really pregnant with my kid? After some thinking I've began to think she's bullshitting me. Reasons why I think that is cause of the time I met her. I've met her mid April and yet in mid May she tells me she's 5 weeks pregnant yet I've only known her for a month? Another reason is I researched online about getting pregnant at her age of 37 and online says it will take a while of trying to get pregnant to actually get pregnant at her age, there's no way I got her pregnant in just two weeks of knowing her and sleeping with her at most 4 or 5 times. And to top it all off she's even threatened me saying I'm going to pay her child support and that she will see me in court, which is fine with me cause then I can get a DNA test to see if the kid is really mine or not if she really is pregnant. What do you guys think? Sorry for the long read.
Rule# 1 = Never stick it in the crazy. Rule #2 = See rule #1 Just one look, That's all it took, Bla Bla. If you stuck it in it it's all to likely YOURS. Man up. BNW
I never thought she would be crazy if I knew no way would I have met with her at all. How could it be mine though? She says the doctors told her she was 5 weeks pregnant when she told me yet I only met her a month ago? Also it's hard for a women her age to get pregnant according to online unless you keep trying but we only met for 2 weeks.
I seen a woman on jerry Springer years ago did this to 5 different guys had them believing they were dad demanded all this stuff or threatened child support all 5 guys didn't know about each other and all 5 was giving her stuff. Get a prenatal test. Or whatever it is good luck Sent from my SM-G950U using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Most definitely. If she really is pregnant I'm definitely going to get the DNA test for sure. Right now I'm not talking to her at all until she gives birth to the baby if she really is pregnant and then I'm going to go get the test done.
My mate was on Jeremy Kyle like 6 or 7 years ago cos his Mrs got gangbanged from 8 or 9 guys and didn't know who the dad was. Was fuckin hysterical. He's got a really rough, lower class Scottish accent and he got away with saying "cunt", "fuckin" and "bint " on national telly at 9am. If you aren't from around here there's almost no way you'd ever hear but its there clear as day to us. Absolute legend haha
My hunch is she’s pissed you’re ghosting her and only interested in sex. She knows you didn’t wear a condom so telling you she’s pregnant is bound to ruin your day. Heck if she plays this right you’ll be sweating this forever.
Again going with a hunch what is the one thing a 37 year old (ha! yeah right) gal cruising tender for young guys doesn’t want to come away with from these romantic encounters? A kid. I mean how much of a meal ticket can the OP be? The potential mom to be doesn’t even know the OP’s name much less anything about him other than he’s the kind of a guy who does random hook ups with chicks he doesn’t know without bothering to even have the courtesy to bring condoms to said hook up. So again all this leads me to believe she’s pulling his chain. Maybe if he’s lucky the OP will learn a lesson from this. Sadly this seems to be one of those lessons we all have to learn at least once.
So yeah you could have gotten her pregnant on the first night, her age is in no way an indication of difficulty of pregnancy, it all depends on when the egg drops down the fallopian tube as there is a window of somewhere around 5 ish days surrounding ovulation where any sperm, including the remote possibility of remains left over from jerking off the previous day can impregnate said egg. So that aside, as yes you could have absolutely gotten her pregnant the first night. Is it likely she's fucking with you? Probably Let's lay this out in a timeline (I know way too much about the detailed day to day of this as my wife and I had to work with fertility specialists for our first one) Lets say she ovulated the day before you met up. Your little sperm got all up in there and impregnated it. Lets say April 15. Now in a pregnancy cycle day 1 comes at the start of a period, ovulation about day 15 so lets say April 15 is her day 15. May 15 she says the Dr says she is 5 wks ** days. If day 1 is April 1st, then may 15 would be week 6 day 2. HOWEVER: At that point in gestation, it is NOT possible to guess the age of the embryo with any degree of accuracy. It isn't until around week 10 that it becomes possible to guess the length of pregnancy to even within TEN days. And blood tests are not an accurate indication of length of pregnancy. So while the timeline fits (She probably understand the timeline better than you) no Dr worth their salt would attempt to make that accurate a call on gestation age at that point in her pregnancy. It would simply be a yes or no you're pregnant answer. If she is really pregnant and claims its yours all the way to birth absolutely get a DNA test, however if it IS yours, don't be a deadbeat. I would say the odds are low that she is pregnant with your child but there is still a chance based on the timeline if her 5 weeks pregnant is based purely on her own knowledge of her cycle it could be true.
I'm referring to the specific age listed. 37 is not a point that's considered difficult to get pregnant, less fertile than a 20yo? Of course, but not anywhere near the point where you can consider it unnecessary to wear a condom due to no risk. If she ovulates and you have no condom on, pregnancy is likely.
Crazy chicks are the best sex but that's the trade off, you're stuck with a crazy chick. Never bed a woman that has more problems than you. You don't know her problems until you've dated a couple times. "...she's lied to me a bunch of times ever since we met." and you went back for a second helping without protection? Some lessons are learned the hard way. Good luck.