So I've been messing with this chick for a few weeks now, she always comes over to my place. Wasn't thinking anything of it, but I asked if we could go back to her place because it was closer. So she casually just says "Na my husband will be home soon and he thinks I'm at my sister's house right now." I was just like "...oh alright" and didn't press it. So anyways what are your thoughts? Take the high road and end it or keep enjoying that (honestly fucking bomb) pussy? Felt kinda bad yesterday but I still smashed. She just hit me up a little bit ago but I haven't responded.
There is a different story for everyone, by which I mean you just don't know her (and his) particular deal. Maybe they both swing (but it doesn't sound like that), or maybe it's abuse?, or who knows why she's doing it. As a married guy I say you end it, but then there's the deal where if it's not you it might be somebody else. Still there's also always the whole worrying and constantly looking over your shoulder thing - what if he follows her and blows up - violently? Probably not but ya never know. No good (besides the sex) will ever come of it... Gl J
No guilt can or should be had on your part. Completely her choice to cheat. Props on the bomb poonani
Do you bust in her? If so, I think I've seen that porno. Lol, but for reals.. it's shady but them hoes ain't loyal. Do you, my dude. Sent from my SM-G360T1 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I mean if you have no problem with it then have fun. But you can't really bitch if a girl does it to you. Sent from my VS985 4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Dude, just saying, from my very biased point of view no mAtter how bomb just walk... First, if she'd do it to him she'd do it you if your thinking of roping her in... Second dude, don't duck up families, bad karma.... My (ex) wife cheated, we were madly in love, I forgIve her but she never forgave herself, we have a kid, we are and always been I civil, but it's like, why dude? Not judging you, just, as Marley said, we 'll have a little voice inside that tells us what's right and what's right. We have to as humans listen to it or..... well, that's my only post on this. No I'll intent intended Ez
This actually kept me up.... So I'll drop note before hitting the sack. As a general reference, the worst thing that ever happened to not just myself, but my ex wife and our son was the other guy. He didn't know she was vulnerable at the time and made a stupid choice, young and impulsive, but it changed all our lives forever As the male, I was over 100,00 in debt post divorce court and we weren't even fighting. Just don't or at least, don't expect the same from a partner ever. Im sure your a good person, needed to reiterate this is worst than a lot of 'crimes' committed daily. A lot of people end up fucked for your need to get off, so, while it's a heavy thought, it's a heavy frikken act bro. Out/
Op be cautious becuz you'll never know if her man has her under investigations & that never ends well bcuz if he finds out about you either he's gonna confront her & simply leaves her or he'll go into murder mode and kill both of you & usually with situations like that, guys dont give a fuck about goin to prison for the rest of their lives .. if i were you i'd drop her like a bad habit bcuz she already gave you some so technically theres nothin else to do with it .. thats why before i mess with a babe, the first line i'd usually say when meeting them is wheres your man at? either they say "at work, at home, or at school" or they say the golden line "i dont have a man" or the alternate golden line "he's doing 55 years to life" .. but if their usually taken then i go no further than a conversation ... but if their free agents or their guy is stuck behind the walls, then its open game .. but yeah op get out while you can before shit starts to hit the fan ...
Been there, done that, got the fucking t-shirt. One way or another, those always end poorly. Especially when the woman decides she's in love & leaves her husband for you. It's a real Oh shit moment. Good luck, & welcome to hell. I am your tour guide.
I've been the guy getting laid and i've been the guy getting cheated on. The poor schmuck she was cheating with ended up trying to marry her and rather than fight over it, i said "Ok!" and moved out promptly. Why? That bitch was crazy. Sometimes, you think your winning when your really about to eat the biggest L of your life and sometimes that works vice versa too... I was starring down a marriage with a very rich woman who had all of her lawyers ready to go like a pack of hounds.. I can guarantee that would of ended horribly for me, but that guy who i thought was fucking me over ended up saving me and that 5 minutes of clarity i got from being on the outside of that situation was all that i needed. She still calls me to this day, i still talk to her son almost every day.
There appears to be a pretty strong consensus here about getting out while you can. Right now it's all on her. Stay, and it's on both of you. Karma is real. J
It was all fun and games till you found out she was married. While you don't know what the real real is sure he might beat her every day but he also might be the best guy you would ever meet. Think about that for 1 minute. Also think about if the shoe was on the other foot and that was your wife/girlfriend how would you feel if you found out. Let's add this to the mix too.....so she is out whoring her nasty ass around with you. What makes you think she didn't just come form her other boy toy's house.? Think about that when you are plowing away at nasty seconds maybe! Karma is a bitch and if you keep at it then you are no better than her from here on out. And yes depending on the state(if in the USA) there is something called alienation of affection. If the husband can prove your involvement with her( HIS WIFE) he can sue you for everything you have or will ever have. It's a very easy win on the husbands side.
From my experience if she's not getting the d from you it will be someone else. Analyze the risk v how good the sex/how hot she is and decide. If it's already been a few weeks I'd just get out, you've had your fun.