So I'm in this relationship with this girl. Sometimes she says shit when she is stoned that is really mean, and often brings people to hang out that she knows I don't like. When I'm high I find that all it does is make me feel worse. But if I wasn't high, then I would probability kill her friends. So I need advice of what to do about this, because I'm starting to feel smoking is making me unhappy more often then not. Even when I'm not with her or her friends.