Hah, it's like colors, There is the saturation and the value, If the saturation is high, then there is high apathy, and there is not really any love or hate. If the saturation is low, then there is all passion. Now there is value, A high value can represent love, a low value can represent hate. And then there is gray, love with hate. If you don't know what the fuck I am talking about, check this out Color Terminology
That is how I feel. The process is slow and we are still in the infant stage of understanding love and how one should treat others. Time heals everything. Except for these crazy eyes.