Can you be with someone that you love but you know your NOT 'in love' with them? My heart aches sometimes, just to feel that deep magical connection. I feel like something is missing but their is nothing wrong with my life. Everything just keeps sailing along. What's wrong with me? Am I selfish? Do I expect to much? Anyone in a relationship? How do you feel? Do you have your off days? Do you think I'm having one? AHHHHHHHH......it's all to hard.