I see pistils, so it's a girl! Here's a photo I stole off the net so you can see the difference. Girls make wispy white to pinkish hairs, pistils, usually in pairs making a V shape, "giving you the high sign". Boys make balls and the balls grow in groups. The balls open into small flowers with yellow stamens full of pollen. Now I want you to look closely at the Girl picture. Below the white hairs that show she's a girl, there is a GREEN spike (You can also see one in the Boy picture). That is a stipule, not a pistil. A lot of beginners confuse stipules for pistils. Just remember that the stipules are green, while pistils are whiteish! Girl ................................. Boy Granny