Ok first of all this happened to me, not me doing this to someone else. Ok so this girl, who I am pretty good friends with, texts me when I got off work today and just wanted to know what I was up to. This was at 6 and I tell her that I just got off work. She then tells me that she is at a bar and asked me if I wanted to come by. Ok a little background, this girl has a bf and lives with him, he usually get's home from work around 8:30 at night, but when he goes to work, she usually hit's me up and we chill until she needs to go. Before any of you think I'm an asshole for being with her when she has a bf, I asked her if she is ok with this and that she doesn't mind it and she is ok with it. I even told her that I didn't want to come between them and she said I wouldn't. I think we are more than just friends with benefits and I am there for her whenever she needs me. Anyways back to the point, I know her bf get's home around 8:30 and when she texted me, I even asked her if she is sure that she can chill. She says that she can chill for a bit, and I'm cool with that. So I go to the bar she is at to try and meet up with her, well I get there by 7:30 and call her and she doesn't answer. I text her that I'm here, and then she texts me that she will come to me after she finishes her beer. I tell ok, about 20 mins later, I text her to see where she is and why she isn't here yet, she then texts me back after 30 mins of telling me that she is going to finish her beer, that she is coming now. She doesn't get there until 8, and then tells me that she needs to go home. THIS PISSED ME OFF, I knew she was going to pull some bullshit like this and we ended up not even chilling. I had to drop her off home, and while I was driving, she kept asking me if I was mad, I told her no but does she really need to ask me if I'm mad? Of course I'm fucking mad, fucking lied to me about being able to chill and just basically hit me up cause she needed a ride. She's done this before, making me wait when I get there for an hour or more. I'm not trying to be a bitch about this, but seriously even if she see's me as a friend, I don't think she should make me wait for her for more than 15 mins. when I'm there to see her and chill with her. What's worse was when I was dropping her off, she said she was chilling outside and smoking with some people. This got me really pissed also, cause she couldn't have called or even texted me to meet up with me first? especially when she knows we don't have a lot of time to chill, she goes and smokes with random people, rather than chill with me and just make me wait for her until she is ready to go home. Do you guys think she is fucked up for doing this to me? Sorry for the long read, and thanks if you read the whole thing, this just happened right now ON fucking valentines day and I needed to rant. I'm going to enjoy this bowl and try and calm down. Again thanks for reading.