I found out my girlfriend of about 6 months signed up for a website where you pretty much sell sexy pictures and videos of yourself for who ever wants to pay for them because she doesnt have a job and rent is coming up. She said she was only going to send messages and no pictures. Well I found her profile and of course she was lying. I dont feel its far off base to say shes pretty much cheating on me. Sending naked pics to random guys on the internet. So should I kick her to the curb or am I over reacting?
Can you work something out? It seems she was doing it for the both of you. Idk I would talk to her about it. Sent from my iPhone using GC Forum
Depends if your the jealous type, and what you want from the relationship? If your the jealous type like me. You'll be constantly thinking, over thinking which will lead to constant arguments and fighting. Fuck that headache. But if your chill and she's not going to be the mother of your children anyway, keep that sexy looking thang before someone one else does. Lol
I don't know exactly how close the two of you are, but that would probably be a deal breaker for me. She says its for the money but I bet a part of her likes getting all the messages telling her how sexy she is, telling her what poses they want for the pictures, etc etc. The lying thing would really bug me too. I don't think I could live with it.
She definitely did lie so we're gonna have to talk about that. I have to admit more of the jealous type. I was pretty set on ending but as you said BLTZD247 shes not going to be the mother of my children...and she is pretty hot. Maybe I will keep her around but holy shit did she lose a lot of points.
yeah I wouldnt like that brother id get shot of her fast,, she cares about money more than her dignity and self respect and dare I say it you aswell, shes a selfish girl and a lier and shes probally already cheating you on for real, she doesnt respect herself she doesnt know how to respect you shes trouble
Well aren't you all high and mighty... Why shouldn't she be allowed to do what she wants? OP doesn't own her.
if OPs with her and in a relationship with her then theres rules to a relationship and selling your body for money behind ur guys back is a no no in anyones book,, unless you dont mind being walked over and abused by a woman then most men would object to that, thats what u call a little dirty in my opinion no offence but if you want a little dirty then fair enough but I dont go there ever in terms of relationships unless your stupid, it be totaly shit and unfulfilling, fact she did it behind his back says it all you get the picture there.
he wudnt need to be naive if he just got rid of her like now, whats naive is allowing it to happen he should save himself a alot of grief and dump her before she dumps him
I would wait and see how much of the money actually goes towards rent i mean shit if ya got the goods why not use em.
my girl dont cheat on me or do seedy things online because shes a good girl and she wud rather go hungry herself than do that or think it she has a load of self respect, so call me whatever but my naivety gives me non sleepless nights and a healthy trustworthy relationship so it cant that bad and im sticking with it