So I've tried many different ways to last longer in bed but can't seem to find a solution. I've tried jacking off before sex (it only made my dick semi hard which sucks). I've tried thinking about something else or pretending she was an ugly ass bitch during sex but that doesn't help as well. I've tried those kegel exercises but that doesn't help. Literally out of ideas, any suggestions?
Are you circumcised? I'm not and I'm planning to so I can last longer sent from a phone that hasn't been invented yet
It's all mental. Tricks only work so well. You need to learn to control yourself from getting too excited too fast. Concentrate on your breathing along with this, holding your breath and not breathing right, on top of sexual attraction, causes blood pressure to rise until you arrive. Breathing can help you focus on your task and help to control your blood pressure No. Tour foreskin is a control mechanism for orgasm. Being uncircumcised you should easily be able to last, not the other way around.
Why would you think that thinking about an ugly chick would help? Are you trying to last longer or go flaccid?
if i feel im about to cum, i stop and take a pussy eating break. just go down and concentrate my tongue on her clit. then maybe 30 seconds later, im back in her. ive heard about "cock rings" but ive never bothered.
wear a condom... they're shit and make it so you can't feel anything (especially the "ultra thin real life feel" ones)
Probably having tons of sex helps. The only time I managed to last forever suprisingly was when I first met my now X-GF. We seriously had the greatest porn star sex and I absolutely couldn't come man. Condoms prevented me from ejaculating. Probably just having slower sex, not humping like an enraged beast, as when you start peaking you can stop and let the feeling pass. Or just work with your woman to train yourself to last longer. I cAme so fast because me and my now ex RARELY had sex, so I'd get so aroused before the actual moment that upon entry I just ended up HNNNNGGGGGGGGing...
Idk. it's just something you learn with practice. get to know your body, explore yourself so you know your limits.
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Condoms will sure do the trick. Hate em. Sometimes I just stop and giv up if I wear one. Ok so here's a real way to do it. Gotta practice hard tho. Right when u feel a nut coming stop for a sec n clinch ur asshole up. Hold it till it goes away and keep strokin. Hard to successfully pull off but u get to do it a few times before u but. If u can do it it takes u from 10 minutes to 30 pretty often. Old school trick from my older brother n the 90s Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Good plan. Girls freak out over that shit. U throw the d right and just stop and lick that kitty for a minute. Cock rings are cool if they fit right. Try a cheap one first. She's gonna love it. Not really a major thing for u but ur lady will def b making u a sandwich after lol Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Its indeed mostly in the mind but without a healthy body how is the mind going to function optimally and be stable? Keep her/his orgasm in mind not yours. Focus more on pleasing them but at the same time enjoy yourself, don't think and simply be in the present moment and connect to the flow-state
Just keep going even if your dick goes limp. After a few minutes you will get hard again. Thats what I do.... Or when you go limp start eating her. The taste will make you hard again.
idk. im uncircumcised also and i nut really fast. It sucks but its pretty cool at the same time. Like dave chappelle said. Its a race. Dont be mad cause i won. lol
I do NoFap and smoke weed because I get hornier when I'm high and even though I bust fast I'm always ready for round two within seconds after a bust Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Pretend it's your grandma. Doesn't always work though when I pretend it's your grandma I still cum pretty fast.