i take it as a compliment. those of the same sex know all the disgusting secrets of your gender. if they still compliment you through this, then you're one handsome devil.
Lol I don't think that's ever happened to me, but if it did I'd probably be flattered but be like sorry buddy got any hot sisters?
Hahaha, I usually don't notice. I'm just a really friendly dude so I'll compliment a shirt or something, but one time, I complimented this guy's shirt, and he started like, talking to me more and more and I realized he thought I was gay.. I had no idea he was gay.
My girlfriend has a gay cousin so I've hung around some gays. I've gotten one or two compliments, I take it positively but also wouldn't swing that way. Also my last dentist visit was a gay dude who made me feel really uncomfortable
Doesn't bother me at all It's only when they continuously hit on ya after you make it obvious you're not interested that it becomes a problem, if they're just testing the waters then no big deal. If they take the hint then s'all good, and it's just a harmless compliment. ^_^
I work sith a gay boss and his specialy is turning straight guys gay and its hilarious!! Hits on me all the time but i just laugh it off. The funniest thing he says is" just come over, its just a couple of straigh guys, hanging out watching porn, jerking eachother off ". Makes me lol everytime
Man this gay guy in my class has a crush on me. Now all my friends make fun of me saying chris gonna come up there and rape you in yo dreams. This is messed up, especially cuz he got no friends and he got so much time to just be creepin. everytime i turn my head hes there with his mouth open and his tongue like a snake just all out and wavin and shit.
Aaha! Dude this happened to me too, Just don't react or give him any attention, He's doing it for the attention of other people, so don't give him the satisfaction. Tell him once before you do this to grow up. Then initiate the plan xD That's hilarious though.
This has happened to me a few times. Outwardly I'm polite about it and I try to remove myself from the situation. Internally I'm grossed out and disgusted. Gay male sex is such a foreign concept to me. I don't understand how a man's hairy butthole is attractive. But to each his own. No need for me to freak out or be a dick. So I just act like it didn't happen and leave.
hahahahaha man I think found myself in way too deep ( no homo, pun ) way past that point because he just kept looking and smiling. Which for him was great because who doesn't like to look at the person they like. For me though, I felt violated and man i want to punch him so bad but I can't because he's only smiling. I thank God that I,m twice his size or I done been raped.
i have a few gay friends, none of which have ever hit on me until very recently and it did not end well. one of my buddies came over, and was fucked up (still no excuse) and would not shut up about wanting to suck my dick....i thought he was kidding at first and i dono if it was the alcohol or what but he was like a god damned junkie for dick.... its been very clear that im a hetero male....one that is quite secure with my own sexuality. that didnt mean a damn thing to him this night. eventually after i realized he was seirous and not just joking like usual, i was yelling at him to get the fuck out of my house and told him fuck you for making me feel uncofortable like that in my own home. i also told him that he complains about people not being cool with gay men, and i definitely made it very clear that what he just did is EXACTLY what straight men think will happen around gay men, and i also made it very clear that he had crossed so many lines. after he left i was still trying to be nice and texted him and said get home safe....he texted back some BS that i forgot, and i havent spoke to him since. overall i could care less if we ever speak again. he was a good friend in som regard, but i am NOT okay with what happend, and i am VERY open and generally a very nice person. that night however i was seriously ready to beat the shit out of him had he not left on his own
I don't know how I feel to be honest I'm kind of able to take it as a compliment but at the same time I'm not down with that.
I talk about my dick infront of everybody i know so some people think i'm coming onto them and sometimes start saying something really intimate and i'm like yo i was just trying to be funny hahahah. The same guy has done it to me like 3 times, or i guess i've done it to him, he always forgets its me that does it until it happens, infront of everybody we know usually too, i dont give a fuck though and he doesn't either so its funny.
Haha I worked at starbucks for a long time and more than a few men have hit on me and tried to ask me out...it doesn't weird me out, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and I was very polite in telling them "sorry,but I'm straight". I definitely took it as a compliment
It really depends how it's done. I've been hit on probably four or five times since I was 15 by guys. I've had creepy ones and I've had ones that were very polite in their approach. The first was very creepy, had a guy whisper to me in maths class that he jerked off thinking about me. Wasn't happy with him to be honest. Not really flattered at the time (he was just all around creepy) but now I am since he picked me over all the other guys there, gotta make you feel good y'know? As for the other times, always at clubs. The creepy (but not as creepy as the first) are the ones that try to hit on you in the toilets. Been coming out of one and a gay guy has done the \,,,/ hand gesture with his pinky and thumb to his ear and mouth "call me". The polite ones just ask if I want a drink, I immediately know what's up and gently decline. I swear I get the 'look' from some of my acquaintances as well. It's always flattering though