I'd be glad to help, well first off you should start with more than one plant (if you can)o say 3 maybe? to increase your possible female: male ratio. Youl will of course need some pots to put them in. If the pots are gonna be their permanent home and you dont plan on transplanting the pot should be pretty deep and wide. Try to find some good soil with good drainage to it and it shouldnt be too heavy. I dunno anything about lights since I dont use them. I use the sun lol. Mine are mostly inside but during the day I put them outside. Im sure the ppl here will be able to help ya more than I will ever be able to but hey its a start........o try looking in the "Indoor Growing" section of this forum they will help alot too...Happy Planting!