I'm in a tough spot... I'll try to keep this as short as possible. Ive been dating this guy for 4 years on and off, recently after having a weeks break we started off well. Better then ever before, but there's a problem. His family hates me.. Literally can't stand me. I'm partly at fault but at the same time he is as well. They posted a bunch of rude stuff on both of our facebook profiles, on their statuses, they basically made it very clear that they dont approve of me. So what I'm asking is this... Should I give a fuck or should I just keep being me? Will this ever get easier or am I just falling into a hole that has no escape. I've come to the point of not knowing. I don't even know if I want to talk to my bf about all this simply cause from experience there's not much he can/would do. I'd love to have him show affection when we're around them but sadly that can't happen as he has pretty bad anxiety so it doesn't help the fact that they think he's miserable with me cause well he looks miserable cause of his anxiety. Any inputs appreciated, whether it be advice or opinion or just personal experience.