help. girlfriend issues and my smoking for medication.

The term is manic depressive. And you aren't alone.

I would respectfully tell your girlfriend that you are doing it for your own well being, If you aren't a legal patient but are self medicating then I would consider looking into making it official. Hopefully your girlfriend can see the positive effects cannabis has on you and can understand that you are using it responsibly.

I try to figure out why exactly she doesn't want you smoking. She should respect you enough to let you make those type of decisions.

I personally can't stand girls that try to come between me and Mary Jane. One bitches and complains, the other comforts and relieves me in my time of need.

 

Idk dude you're in a pretty tough situation..
Like you and the other dude said, you really are gonna have to fight with this it seems..
IMO what I would do is sit her down and talk to her about it..
Try comparing seroquil to mj both being medicines..
Let her know that on sero you attempted twice, and if one of two of those attempts weren't well..attempts, then you would not be here today to continue loving her and caring for.
Compared to say..MJ which has had no major negative effects on you, but helped you and did not make you want to hurt yourself and take your own life out of this world..(correct me if wrong). You know what i'm saying?
I mean MMJ/MJ is just so medicinal its insane..
So comparing it as a medicine to another negative medacine is completely sane.
So just help her realize ya know?
Open her eyes, and hope her ears are open as well bro.
Best of luck to you..stay off that fucking sero man..
Peace-

 

Hey bro you can sugar coat this if you want, but she needs to realize this isn't about her, she needs to get over herself and be happy that you're happy. How the hell was she happier with you being so depressed and almost committing suicide?

Let me guess, when you were on prescription meds you were up and down all the time, I bet you turned to her a lot for answers/guidance/help. She helped you, but in turn, inevitably she got used to the control of giving you guidance and support, aiming you in the "right" direction.

One more guess, now that you're smoking that sweet mj you have been mellowing out and maybe making some of your own decisions now maybe not needing as much of a crutch(gf) as before. It's not that you love her less, you just don't need her helping you that way now that you found something that helps you be your own man.

On top of that she can be a bit scared of change as this is a definite change for you, yes?

Now this was all just a guess, please correct me if I am wrong in any assumptions made.

But it would seem as though your beezy is having some control issues

 

Yeah no problem bro, glad to help. Or at least try
Ah I see whatcha mean..
Hmm.

 

I would explain it to her how it helps you and that its a better alternative to sero.. basically what others have said. Try to explain also that doctors proscribe amphetamines and other usually illegal drugs for medical patients.

But if she is too hardheaded to realize that it is a beneficial thing to you, honestly man i can't see what You see in her.

 

I'm sorry and no offense, but women are generally brainless and this is a pretty apparent example of so. I've had problems with this type of thing before. I was dating my ex a year ago and when she found out I was smoking she flipped out. She would call me crying, telling me weed does bad things to you, and telling me I need to quit. Of course I tried to stop but that lasted about a week and realized no girl is worth quitting for, although I don't necessarily use marijuana medicinally. I just kept it secret from her.. hehe.

and of course, nowadays she hangs out with kids that smoke weed pretty often but I don't think she has done it. Just goes to show women and their arrogant ways of thinking.

tell her straight up, you need it. It shouldn't be an option for you if MJ helps you out as much as you're saying. Tell her you consider it medicine and that its necessary.

I wish you luck sir.