Okay okay i will be a little more specific here I dont really have too many friends and i dont go to a lotta social events. so most girls i met are usually like cashiers or servers and things of that nature. So i guess its the quick nature of the whole conversation that gets my heart beating faster, and i get "excited".
being labeled a creeper isn't too bad, just be humorous about it, crack jokes etc, sex jokes i mean that man, can't tell you how many numbers i've gotten from like five minutes of fucked up jokes and generally this hurts ones ability to be social(well with some people) but i think it wouldn't hurt for you to jack off every once in a while, desesitize the thing
I dont like being fake or putting on a front. I know bros who do this at bars and such to pick up girls. Sure you can get some pussy off a few lies and jokes, but id rather be honest and have a woman like me for me, even if she only likes me for a night