I know that people have their little changes they need to make after breaking up, but drugs and alcohol? My last gf I broke up with was an avid non-drinker, while I of course was an avid drinker. She HATED it with a fiery passion (alcoholic family.) Since we broke up all she does is party and drink, and on top of that she talks about it non-stop. The girl I broke up with now, an avid non-smoker (dad's a pothead) is smoking and bar-hopping 3-5 times a week, and is so proud that it's her new (my long time) thing now. WTF? I can understand a revenge lay but c'mon....has this happened to anyone?