Lying ruins everything in a relationship. Even small lies. Im in the process of moving out because my bf was cheating on me with some chick he met on line. I found out and I am done. Been together 5 years and after I found out I realized that I had let so many 'little' lies slide and did nothing about it. Breaking up sucks Have you called her and told her your sorry? Maybe thats all she needs?
I don't think that "flirting on Facebook" is that big a deal, but I guess she didn't like that you lied about it. Four years is quite a long run for a relationship without marriage or living together. Just be glad you didn't have kids (which I assume is the case).
just wanted to update - couldnt sleep all night so i said fuck it and drove down to see her, got there at 8am, she was in bed gave her a flower and letter i wrote explaining how i know its all my fault that brought us to this point but i'd be damned if i didn't fight for the one thing worth fighting for and bla bla bla bla. So after the 6 hour round trip she's here with me, taking a shower and getting all pretty and we will procede to have some awesome make up sex. want to thank everyone for support. shit got real for a minute, and now its back to normal. I hope our relationship only gets stronger but if not i know that change would only be for the best. no more fuckin up on my part i tell you what. cheers
we've lived together pretty much the whole time. yeah no kids, and marriage is something i dont see necessary for a longggg time. (well paying job, ready to have kids etc. ideally when i'm like 30 lol.)
yeah she wouldnt pick up the phone, texted me saying she didnt wana talk for a week atleast. so i said fuck it and drove there
although inevert gave a fuck about any girl expept mky mom nd my sisters. i feel u i got alot of issues i just use drugs to cover em up. it doesnt help but keeps me goin everyday
KIds take your whole life away. I got married but never had kids and I'm very happy about that. It would have drained everything I had, financially, time wise, stress, etc.
I know the feeling it hurts pretty badly, even more so if you're madly in love with the one that's pulling away. In retrospect, I needed the pain I felt after the breakup because it provoked so much introspection and eventually a lot of growth. For future reference I'd ask yourself why you felt blindsided by her actions and have a good reason for that. One thing that's easy to do is repeat the same mistakes, for some it can become an endless cycle.
This thread scares the shit out of me.. My boyfriend and I have been together four years and I don't know how I'd be okay with it if we ever did break up. I wish you the best. I hope everything works out for you soon. Edit: just read your update. Make up sex is the best! Good for you op for writing a letter and being all sweet and shit.
WOW nice job dude!! i know how that feels dude you were so close to losing her don't let it happen again!! it feels great though................... by the way......... how was that makeup sex.
I was in a similar position as you. Just try not to think about all the black cock she is sucking now that you guys are separated