Hi all. I'm 24 but my best girl friend (let's call her Abby) dated this guy (let's call him Ryan) who is 3 years older than Abby. They dated for 3 years. They lost it together but he cheated on her so they ended shit but hooked up on and off for the next few years. Once she got to college, she "done" with his stupidity. Anywayyyy, Ryan has a younger brother (who is mine and Abby's age) who happens to be my gay BFF. Cut to Ryan and I randomly sexting throughout college and by April 2012, he starts texting me again. He has been in a relationship (let's call her Jackie) since 2010 and they have been living together for 2 years now. Now Ryan is a flirt and initiates a convo by sexting but wants to make sure I am willing to keep this a secret (since he's in a relationship). Now remember, I know he's in a relationship because of my BFF (Ryan's brother) and I am shocked but not SURPRISED about Ryan's behavior (due to his cheating past with Abby). He sexts me everyday for months and tells me (specifically) what we're going to do (sex-wise) but I'm a BBW virgin and Ryan is tall, athletic and hot. I haven't hooked up since high school and TBH; I'm horny and we live within blocks of each other. So by summer, I meet up with him a few times at his place where I blow him, swallow, and leave. I pass up a few more opportunities to meet up just because I don't feel right about it. I still havent told my gay BFF (his brother) OR my best girl friend (Abby) anything about it since they would flip out that I had been with him. Out of nowhere, he starts to send me pix of other guys' dicks and tells me it's "him" with random girls (but they are pix from porn sites). I don't know if guys do that...or it's just creepy...he thinks he's an "Alpha Male" LOL. Plus, he is into MILF's and has repeatedly asked me if I know any. Mind you, he is 26 and claims he has hooked up with several MILF's (up to age 50) but I don't know if I believe it (since his lying past with Abby). He also asked me to find a girl for him (one of my BBW friends) to give to him so he can be naughty with them too. Butttttttttttt he continues to text randomly asking if I miss his d*ck. UPDATE: So a week ago, he texts me: "no more texting my cell. i'll text from my ipod. lose my number" = that pissed me off! ----------> he's dumb, I don't think you can TEXT from your ipod SMH. I haven't texted him since because I'm annoyed. Ryan has said to Abby that he doesn't care if Jackie cheats on him as long as she comes home to him at night. But mostly, I think he doesn't want to hook up as often because f*cking is off the table with me (since I'm a virgin). IN THE MEANTIME, for the past 6 months he made an account on a porn site under the dating section trying to find girls to hook up with in the area. He posts on random girls walls all these hilarious bullshit cliche sayings but they don't respond to him LOL. ----------I'd really appreciate any positive feedback, advice, and suggestions for how I should handle this situation. Thanks! Too bad his cum tastes so amazing.
things prolly got more serious with Jackie, and maybe she checks his phone now. So he is using his ipod for his cheating ways. That's probably it, so not sure why you took that so hard - you know he's in a relationship and both of you are trying to keep it on the DL (what you are doing). You because of his little brother + Abby and him because of Jackie mainly. I'm really high so I can't offer much else
lolol dude hes just a guy who cares, theres soo many horndogs out there so why stick to one if youre single
You can text from an ipod using a text app. But fuck that the guy is just using you. Sounds like a complete asshole. Tell him to go fuck himself.
There are many, many, MANY more men in this world. A lot will treat you better than this. The idiot you currently deal with is a weak member of our gender. He sounds insecure, like he wanted to have you over but couldn't pull the trigger. Get rid of him, you don't want his genes soiling your eggs.
Sounds like I was caught inside a girls head and, holy shit lol but as a guy Ur gettin used he is trying to be a "player" get with ad many girls/milfs as he can, sleep with them and go on to the next. Don't waste Ur time. Ur just getting used
There is so many things that I want to say about this, but I'll say the most important one: You CAN text from an iPod, you just get a text app... Duh.
well, hate to break it to you OP.. but you guys are definitely NOT friends with benefits. he's using you for getting some dome. that's about it.
you say you are a virgin and that being said I wouldn't give any guy a blow job til I got one first so use that MF the way he uses you and keep your virginity intact. Remember the time you spend with him could be spent with a guy who gives as good as he gets.