My friend gave this funny looking feminized plant to me because he didn't have the resources to take care of it. I think it's already a couple months old. Other than obviously transplanting it into a bigger pot ( I was going to use some Miracle Grow Organic potting soil), what can be done? The plant is around 3 feet tall with a FAT stem, and I really don't want it to get bigger. Is there anything I can do at this point, or should I just let nature take its course? Any growing tips would be great. Thanks!