FRAT warning. So basically i have about 5 friends who smoke alot over the years, I would call close friends in every aspect except getting me or a few other friends bags. The only constant thing that baffles me is they dont like getting bags for me or 2 other friends who are more casual smokers who dont have any hookups ourselves. Recently i was very lucky another friend who is in the same boat as me had met someone at work who got us bags, it was great, but now he moved. What Im trying to understand is why they dont like getting us a bag, and i will give a few details as to how i try to help the situation. 1. I offer to prepay for our share. 2. I dont smoke alot, an 8th lasts me 2 months, i dont want to cause them trouble or be a pain. 3. I dont demand a bag, i politely ask them to pick me some up whenever they run out and are getting some themselves. And if any of my 2 other friends that have trouble getting dope as well want some, i make sure we are all in sync and prepaid, we ask for something like one quarter for all of us then split it amongst ourselves on our time after to ease the hassle of the person picking up. In this way i figure the person getting the bag hopefully doesnt see it as needing to get some for 3 extra people, but just one more bag for another person that we split amongst ourselves after. 4. I have offered many times to let them keep a joint of my bag for themselves for the trouble. That doesnt seem to help. Or even pay a little extra. Is it just a pain to get someone else a bag, or am i not doing enough to make the situation easy for them. I emailed a friend the person who i had the most success with. We talk every week. I asked for a bag 2 weeks ago, he responded it was a drought (I know he smokes daily), so i didnt want to pressure, i messaged him again today just asking if it still looks bad out their, he responded "sorry just got a bag last night" I am a little annoyed I just politely reminded him whenever he gets one i wouldnt mind one and will help make it easy as possible for him. Any hints or things im not considering when asking a friend would be appreciated. Before someone says why dont you ask them, I have asked 2 other friends and almost had to confront them before i finally got an answer, usually they would brush me aside when i asked. The general consensus is the hardcore smoking freinds get each other bags and look out for each other, but us more casual smoking friends are not really a concern and we are extra hassle and dont have any connections ourselves so we dont contribute. Thats why im trying to make it easy as possible for them. One of my friends is now considering using silk road it has gotten so bad that hes willing to take a risk rather then ask them. Also before someone asks why dont you ask your friends to meet their dealers. From what I know they get some off people they play hockey with. I have never met them, the people they also get it off of are not dealers, but simply people who buy large quantities as well for them. A couple of my other casual smoking friends who also know them wont ask them either, they always ask me to ask them... Any advice on how to make the situation easier for them would be appreciated. Me and my buddy have been out for 2 months.