Dealing with erectile dysfunction?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Immeco, Feb 5, 2012.

  1. Well, not exactly erectile dysfunction. See, I can get it up, just not when it matters, ya know? Can't take viagra because it fucks. What should I do, guys? It's become quite a problem recently.
     
  2. Penis Pump? Idk
     
  3. Man, I know what you mean. Can really only get it up when we start doing things. After a while, it`s like my dick just loses interest. I thought about viagra too, but i`m 18 and that`s probably a bad idea.
     
  4. Sounds like you get nervous. Just calm down bro. She's probably a little self conscious as well
     

  5. Yeah it's either this, or you watch A TON of porn :O
     

  6. I agree, stop watching porn all together and stop jacking off, you'll get a boner for every girl you see
     
  7. I had erectile dysfunction during a foursome once. It's like my dick could not believe what was happening and thought it wasnt worth it to get erect because it seems to much like a dream and therefore not actually happening...
     

  8. Bann this queer.
     

  9. Why? He's like that dumbass friend that is always eating but never contributes to the conversation. He's not hurting anyone.
     
  10. It can be really self fulfilling, you worry about it and worry so much it is going to happen that it does.

    Try to take you time and enjoy the situation, girls like massages, touching and oral just fine. If you don't focus on the 'end result' so much it will take the pressure off.

    I read somewhere that if you wake up with a hard on, it is an indication that your body is working right and capable.

    Good eating and regular exercise can help too.
     
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    get that mushroom tip all swol and erect, btw they say cialis is where it's at
     
  12. #12 yellow bic, Feb 5, 2012
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    i was with this girl heather for a lil bit when me and my current girlfriend had broken up(sprry baby im not psting this to make u mad or anything just to help out OP and to show you just how special you are and just how much i love you! )


    anyways with heather it took me sooo long just to get the courage to even kiss this girl, and when that finally happened i thought it would be smooth sailing from there.....WRONG.

    when we would hook up i would say almost 85% of the time i could not get hard, i have NO clue why, i really attribute some of it if not most of it to the fact that i have always loved my ex at that time (current gf now) and its not even that i would be thinking about her when i would try to hook up with heather, its just like my body knew something wasnt right.

    heather was cool and understanding of it and didnt make me feel bad about it, which just goes to show that it was all in my head and in my emotions for my ex even tho the love for her was mostly subconcious at this point.

    but many a times i have tried to hook up with others, not just this heather girl, i found that i just could not perform, and i dontmean sexually here, i mean like i just couldnt perfom in the sense of having "game" as some call it. and as a 23 year old, thats quite shocking and VERY embarassing (i cant believe im posting this :p)


    now with my current gf whom ibelieveto be my soul mate,i get hard andstayhard just from her looking at me a certain way. she makes me feel so special not just sexually but on every aspect of a relationship. and like i said, when trying to hjook up with other girls,i was not consciously thinking about her,i was focused onthegirl i had in front of me. but its like my body knew it didnt want that. it wanted my real true love.


    so OP my question to you is, is there anyone like an ex, or a friend you have a crush on, or evenjust someone else you have feelings for that could potentially bemakingthis happen?

    if no. then i would say it is just nerves and or stress of beingwith someone new, and new partners andnew things can be WONDERFUL.......but it may take sometime gettin to know that person and being comfy enough around that new person to be ableto perform, and not only perform sexually but also be comfy enough around each other to actually progress your relationship :)

    all i know is that when you are with the right personfor you it absolutely will not be a problem, unless of course you actually have E.D. but in this case imreally thinking you do not. (so thats good news!)\\
     
  13. There are a number of treatments for erection problems. Doctors usually start with lifestyle changes and medicines. They usually don't advise surgery or other treatments unless those first steps don't help.
    Treatment can include:
    Making lifestyle changes, such as avoiding tobacco, drugs, and alcohol. It may also help to talk about the issue with your partner, do sensual exercises, and get counseling.
    Finding and then stopping medicines that may be causing the problem. In some cases you can take a different medicine that does not cause erection problems.
    Taking prescription medicine that can help you get erections. These include pills such as sildenafil (Viagra), tadalafil (Cialis), and vardenafil (Levitra). Check with your doctor to see if it is safe for you to take one of these medicines with your other medicines. These can be dangerous if you have heart disease that requires you to take nitroglycerin or other medicines that contain nitrates.
    Taking medicines and getting counseling for depression or anxiety.
    Using vacuum devices or getting shots of medicine into the penis.
    Having surgery to place an implant in the penis

    Source:-http://thebluepillstore.com/
     
  14. Okay, if you can get an erection at any given point, the shit is working. It is all nerves.
     
  15. Well if I get drunk shit stops working but other than that its good.
     
  16. Are you trying to fuck fatties?
     
  17. My gf just cured my downstairs problems. Damn.
     
  18. 90% if you're under 30 it's porn induced ED, look it up!
     
  19. You Need a Snake Charmer
     
  20. If I'm smoking heavily I definitely notice that it's harder to get up. If I haven't smoked in a day or two then pass me a joint and watch me go.
     

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