Just found out my fiancé is paying money for live porn online. He has Erectile Dysfunction and VERY FEW things stimulate him. What’s worse is that he’s not open to try new things. He only gets off with hand jobs. On the other hand, I am the complete opposite. I love all types of sex and can have sex everyday if given the opportunity. He will NOT meet me 1/2 way. So I am extremely sexually dissatisfied. SO it hurts to know that I keep putting in so much effort to please him, he can’t meet me 1/2 way. But instead is spending money (we are trying to save for a wedding btw) on strangers online. Is this cheating? Am I going crazy here? I thought about this a lot and figured maybe I should just leave it alone. I thought of a way that maybe will make me feel less like shit and more satisfied. I thought of joining a hookup site or Tinder so I can sext (not have sex in person) whenever I want. Thoughts?
So, you thought you'd create an account on a marijuana forum to hash our your sexual troubles? Something smells fishy. And I don't see any prawns on the barbie.
Trolls gonna troll. I look at it mathematically. A rough estimate is for every active posting account that's female, there's at least 9 active accounts that are male. So when a new account signs up, there's only a 10% chance they will actually be female. So right off the bat if a new account is female I assume it's unlikely and more probable that it's some sad lonely dude who's got no substance in his life to occupy his time
Lol so let me get this correct OP come to a marijuana forum to tell us her other half can't get it up & watches handjob porn...
Why would you want to marry a guy with dick problems? You already completely resent his actions, why sign up for the next 20 years for more of the same? Your resentment will only get worse. If you're financially dependent upon him then I understand but are you sure it's worth it?
To many red flags. It's fantasy land for him and he you won't give you any attention. Bye bye. I'm 68 married 48yrs and have never had erectile problems. Exercise, eat a plant base diet be kind, considerate, loving, spontaneous, share your love and be loved.
The guys who posted on this thread first are total tools. Though OP if you're serious, then you should consult a relationship counselor. This forum won't help at all.
Chaturbates a crackin wank haha you'll never get him back when he can pay 18 year olds to drink their own piss.
I generally figure these kinda posts are from existing members that don't want us to know who they are.
Welcome. Can you not have sex at all and he’s entirely aroused by nothing other than hand? By paying people online do you mean live video or premium porn? (EDIT: just reread it is live people. ) It would be extremely emasculating when it’s not working downstairs - this would be very hard to talk about - especially when you can just get your “own” on “your own” and no need for sex at all. You have a bigger issue if he’s unwilling to satisfy you sexually. Is the act of turning you on and pleasing you not enjoyable for him? You have an issue if he doesn’t enjoy pleasuring you. Bet he doesn’t go down on you either !
Seconding the relationship counseling advice. If you’re serious about this guy, the only option is to start talking, and it will probably help to have a counselor facilitate that. I think you really need to think about what you want out of this relationship and whether your needs will be met. Try this stuff before you turn to Tinder or something like it; that’s a good way to just torpedo the relationship permanently.