At what age is still being a virgin pathetic?

I think it's stupid in any case to judge someone based on whether they are a virgin or not. There are more important things in this world.

And no, I'm not a virgin.

 

I don't really think getting laid is really that hard these days.

Having a satisfying relationship that actually lasts longer than a few months - that is pretty fucking hard to come by...


I have a friend with lots of money (plenty o' cash), who will change his persona and act stupid around girls and he gets laid all the time. He has some of the stupidest relationships and basically always has a girl. Doesn't really have much in terms of standards and usually goes out with the kinds of girls who like to be pampered but also like to be put down (pretty fucked up right). He gave his last girl herpes and then made their relationship official. I guess that's what it took. I'm basically the exact opposite of him as a person and I haven't gotten laid yet. I'm more reserved in general, have a higher IQ, and tend to make better life decisions in general (there are so many times where I've had to point out to him, in detail, why it would be retarded to do some of the things he was going to do, he just doesn't see it). Really, it just comes down to confidence and willingness. I think people who aren't as smart (and don't tend to over-think things) are generally more confident and can interact with people of similar intelligence very easily. I think having sex with someone that you are actually intimate with and have formed a relationship with would be much more rewarding than the gratification that is gained from just fucking somebody out of raw, lustful impulsion.

In short, I really think that there is no one age, different people have different approaches, standards, and cultural norms.

Spoken like a true virgin.

 

if youre trying to get laid throughout college, and you fail every time, its kinda pathetic.


ITS NOT HARD IN COLLEGE.

now if its by choice... when then youre kinda weird to begin with

 

I didn't lose it in high school cause I grew up around a really conservative community where sex was like taboo or something, and of course there was the conditioning of my asian parents on top of that...really unlike any other high school out there so staying abstinent wasn't really a big deal there.
But I am mad at myself for not getting out enough during college. This one girl who wasn't too bad wanted the dick, gave me multiple indicators too, but I was hella chickenshit at the time/she always did it whenever I was with a group of people, so I never made a move. I hate myself for that. My second year in college was all bad, stayed a hermit in my dorm and didn't interact with my other 2 roommates who partied alot. If I had I probably would've gotten poon, stupid mistake. Making a promise to myself to lose it this year, hopefully before 20.

 

ah 30 is pushing it a bit, but it depends on the person really, i lost my virginity at 14 to my boyfriend of 8 months, who im still on and off with, looking back now, and looking at my little sister whos 14 now, thats WAY too young id die if i found out she was having sex and id want to kill the fucker who took her virginity, but at the time for me, it felt right and i dont neccessarily regret it, but looking back its just so young i was only a baby really, youre not old enough or mature enough at that age to be having sex or to even be thinking about having sex for that matter
i think 17 or 18 is a good time to loose your virginity, but i think waiting till your 24 or 25 is ok too, after that i think its a bit weird

 

hey man, i just stated my opinion without singling anyone out.. youre the one getting involved in my business.

i repeat

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just graduated highschool and while many of my friends have lost theirs, i have not. I feel sex is something that you shouldn't go around doing with any and every attractive person that walks by.

I've seen a few people have complications from unexpected pregnancies. For example my buddy who stole $300 from another friend in order to pay for an abortion from some cougar he boned, and had previously bragged about.

 

nice misuse of a comma

 

Honestly, I'd say 17. But I mean, not really pathetic, just unfortunate. Bad would be 20. Worse would be 21. 22 to me is the pathetic age. But idk, I lost it at 16 so its prolly cause of that. And I don't look down on someone for not having lost it yet, I just feel there missing out on life. Missing alot of life.

 

I lost mine at 15 and it was fun banging all those high schoolers and college girls..I wouldn't say any age is pathetic but you're missing out

 

Am I the only one who sees sex as normal fun? I don't see it as special, I am not religious or conditioned to fear animal instinct.

It's really that many of you are shy and anxious, insulting sex and praising porn. I love both but once my anxiety dropped I have no issue with people loving casual sex, if it's jealousy then work on what is holding you back, we are here from sex for sex.

 

I could agree with that. Fuck it, lets call it 21 ?

 

5.....

 

Myn was forced when I was 12 no joke

 

One year more than whatever age I happen to be

 

[quote name='"Olesmoky"']Who gives a fuck?

Hey, I have a question.

At what age is it pathetic to give a shit about what everyone else is doing with their lives?[/quote]

I think the answer is Tuesday