so, i've been with my partner for the past seven years... things have been okay... but, lately (or, i should say the past four or five months) i haven't felt like the relationship is doing anything other than being an emotional sinkhole. i've found myself fantasizing about other people (men and women... yes, i'm queer, deal with it.) and wondering "what if" with regards to this whole thing. i've also caught him getting a little more passive agressive about a few things... how i'm not always on top of keeping the place clean... insinuating that i'm one step away from being a bum (i have a job and i have side projects like the game i'm working on with some friends and the patient i'm learning to grow better beans with.) he has a selective memory about when i've fucked up and he's fucked up and lost his cool saying that i'm always turning things around to make him the bad guy (i am not perfect and i admit that both to him and y'all here... i fuck up quite a bit and admit it.) that and the sex is just not what it used to be either. i'm borderline a-sexual with him (as in, i don't have much interest in sex with him.) a part of this i would suspect is the medication i'm on. it's made my emotions a little duller than normal and hasn't really helped with much other than making me a bit of a zombie. still, i just don't "feel" it like i used to... and if i'm on this medication for longer than a few years (god i hope not) would you think that it would be a mercy kill to take a break at the least for now? i don't know if i should just up and end it because what if this IS purely the medications i'm on killing my emotional range (or, better yet, turning it from depressed to emotionless.) i've tried talking to him about it but it ends up with the same result. he gives "advice" which isn't really advice and it ends up not being resolved... he even states that i'm the hyper emotional one and he's the hyper rational one (when i know he's not... but dare i prick that little fantasy he has and risk a big blow-up?) i don't know what to do... maybe i just needed to get this off my chest... but still, as i am right now i'm not feeling it anymore. what would you do?