Behold people, a question I never thought I'll ask myself. The thing is, I'm a pretty normal guy, bar the fact that I'm not educated but I've traveled around the world and the fact that I've been smoking up pretty much everyday since the past 5 years. I lack pussy. The last sexual act I had was in April 08 when I made a visit to the states and even then I couldn't fuck because I couldn't get turned on. It came in patches and basically the nice girl tried everything but nothing would work. This was an alcohol induced night. Basically, I'm 22 and still a virgin, I wouldn't mind fucking, and I'm not bad looking but I don't know, the pussy just doesn't come itself. I dunno. Am I gay? I do have the occasional random sexual act with a girl here and there, but never had sex, and basically, none of my friends know this. I've never felt comfortable telling people i'm a virgin. Fuck, it's taken me 4 years to get this off my chest.
Nah man, you ain't gay unless you look at dudes and want their number lol. Your time will come man, you'll get it on all night long!
Do you get turned on by males? If yes then you are probably gay. Just because your a virgin doesnt mean you are gay.
It's also possible that you just haven't met the right girl. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.
^That could be part of the problem, nothing against nice girls, but try a dirty one once, & by dirty I mean freaky & nasty, & by nasty I mean she'll do it...what ever "IT" is. Or a smoking hot Asian girl.
roflmao at hot asian girl. I'm not turned on by men at all, although I always thought one of my friend's brother was kinda cute and it was usually awkward around him even though come to think of it it just weared off eventually as we started to play football etc and it was a pretty normal relationship.
I love the internet. You can get everything off your chest and get other opinions without being judged face to face.
So you say your not turned on to men at all but say you liked one of your friends brothers. Sounds like your confused man and possibly bisexual. Open the closet door and take a big step out.
YUP ur gay, you never ever think some guy is cute, never. i unno not to be to quick to judge but if you have to question your sexuallty then you must think in some ways your gay, its ok, but its pretty str8 (no pun) forward, if your a virgin thats alright, but dont qestion your sexuallty because of it, I am not trying to be a ass or anything, but by the sounds of things it does sound your are leanin towards men, i just speak to what i think it is, if your not gay then my bad but you listed off gay quatlitys and in turn make you come off as someone who is gay, this is just my PoV, you said you wanted opinions of others.
All guys judge other guys. It's impossible not to. But in this type of discussion, mentioning another man as "cute" erm, kind of speaks volumes. Your username is just your subconscious talking in my opinion. A girl wanted your johnson and you didn't get hard. Your name is backdoorman. You thought a guy was cute, not - yeah he's an attractive guy you see why girls like him like brad pitt or some shti - no, he's cute. Yeah dude, you're gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.
If you had to choose between watching two men have sex or two women, what would you choose? If you get aroused at the men then you're gay, if you prefer watching women have sex you're straight (or at least bi). Just because pussy doesn't come around your way very often doesn't mean you're gay though, it just means you could be a sex deprived straight man.
^Good point. I would recommend some pornographic visual aids, & get yourself on a strict masterbation schedule, & stick with that program until things are a little more clear, you have to walk before you can run.
Mu husband was a virgin when he met me, and he told me that he felt similar to your situation. He felt there was so much pressure on him, being the only virgin in his group of friends, although no one else knew he was a virgin he still felt weird i guess. So when he would have the chance to hook up with some chick he didnt feel turned on he felt pressure. He later tells me that he felt really comfortable with me and then was able to feel turned on and you know.... I am not saying that this is why you feel this way, just adding my two cents. And when I read your post and saw your name I was wondering like hmmm??? lol funny
Just because you think a man is kinda cute doesn't mean you're gay, it means you can just appreciate attractiveness regardless of gender... Don't listen to the alpha males, something like that DOES NOT make you gay. However, if you find yourself physically attracted to males then you just might be. You just might have a low sex drive... It can be very hard to get an erection for someone like that (especially on alcohol) with a girl that he's not attracted to. Maybe you just need to find the right girl, someone who can stimulate your mind before she stimulates your body. But really, only you know this question. If you've never looked at a woman and felt some sort of attraction and the exact opposite is true for men, then yes, I would think that you might be gay... but just because you haven't had sex yet and couldn't get an erection does not make you gay.
+1 This guy has it right. Only you can answer that question. Perhaps you need to experiment a little to find out. I just don't think asking a forum (much less one about marijuana) is the best approach.