Alright well, Im 18 and still in HS. I stayed back so next year Im becoming a senior but I am switching schools. I've had past relationships but not many. I really hope I can have more and Im not sure where to start. No one at this school knows me so all of my reputation..good or bad.. is now erased. Im not the ugliest person but I know I'm not the cutest either. The thing that bothers me is my hair and forehead. First, my forehead is giant. People tell me "No it's not" but it's big. I try to either hide it with a hat or push my glasses up further. I dunno but I try lol. My hair is a whole other story. First off, Im half black and half white so you know my hair is fucked up. If I let it grow, it's rather nappy yet soft and smooth. If it gets long, it curls up into an afro basically. It's basically normal afro hair but softer I guess. Theres not much I can do with it. It's a dirty blonde color, darker in some places but not noticable unless you stare at my hair lol. Anyways, besides how ugly I am, I am trying to have a new attitude and such. I've always been nervous around people.. anybody. I've stuttered since I was like 6 but Im not TOO bad at stuttering and I don't stutter that often. Besides that, I am trying to develop a different attitude. Im usually outgoing and I like to make people laugh.. but if no one knows me cracking a joke can either make or break a chance. They might laugh and think it's hilarious or give me the "Who the fuck are you" look. I don't know if I should act like I usually do or just .. be shy I guess. Im really not sure. There are sooo many cute girls at this school and I mean.. I don't really know how to make any of them like me. I think that I am a really nice guy. Im not stuck up but I will bend over backwards for any of my friends and basically any girl, even if I'm not dating her. In my old school, all my friends came to me with their problems. Girls, guys it doesn't matter. Everyone always complimented me and said Im really good at fixing people's problems. Girls come to me alot to help them with their relationship problems, which kind of piss me off because half the time I would love to get with the girl yet I am trying to help her get over or get back with her lying/cheating/rat bastard/asshole boyfriend. Anyways, I am just confused about it all. I really want to make a good first impression. I would like people to respect me or feel shy around me. I really don't want to be the guy that everyone doesn't even take a second glance at. I want to be the guy who the cute girl will be like "Ooh.. whos that?". Not "Ew... whos that?" I'm not really sure what I am asking you guys to tell me but I would like some feedback on the overall subject. Btw.. I am really insecure about myself. Most girls I ever asked out shot me down lol. Sigh.