Okay sup guys, just posting this vent a little.. So lately I've been going to my gf's house late at night and staying there till around 2-3am gettin some poon. You see, I turn 21 in a few months and I feel I shouldn't really have to report to my folks and whatnot. It's not THAT serious, they don't really ask where I'm going usualy, but if it's in the late hours, my dad get kind of pissy. Okay, so my family is from the middle east, and we came to the states in like '99, so I've been here most of my life. My parent's never really had "the talk" with me and it sucks that talking about females and gf's and whatnot is so awkward that I don't even tell them anything. I feel like I am a pretty responsible person.. I went to CC right after highschool, I have one more semester of CC left until I transfer to the University. I have have two part time jobs, one of which is a work study program where I do homework. So you say, just move out..well you see, my folks are moving back to our homeland in a few years and my little brother and I get the house..so it would be in my best interest to stick around and be patient.. Anyways, my girl tells me that I should talk to them and let them know that I am an adult and I shouldn't really have to get a guilt trip or whatever for coming home late.. This really isn't a huge problem or anything but I'm not sure how to approach this whole thing..I always tell them I'm hanging out at one of my (male) friend's house..or going out with some friends and whatnot.. It's so weird that in this family, it's like taboo to talk about girl interests and whanot..EVEN THOUGH MY MOM GOT MARRIED TO MY DAD AT LIKE 20! so what the fuck thanks for letting me vent guys, any words of advice or anything is appreciated..