Or not quick advice, either works. Anyways I'm 20 and this guy is 21, and I'm moving in a few weeks (which he knows). The other night, we were supposed to hang out, but instead he decided to go to the bars (which I'm too young to go to). We had hooked up for the first time the night before so I figured he was blowing me off, and got annoyed (plus the way he went about it sort of seemed that way). I asked my roommate for advice and she said he was totally blowing me off, and I should not respond to his texts and possibly delete him on facebook. Well my dumb ass listened to her advice and now I'm realizing that deleting him was very stupid. I regret it. I'm not sure if he's even noticed yet, but I have no idea what to do. Should I block him so it looks like I didn't delete him? Should I lie and say it was an accident? Should I be honest about the whole situation? Ugh please help. Sorry for a question about petty facebook lol that site is evil
Actually both our thirsts have already been quenched in this situation. I don't think that's the issue here I know haha there's details I left out, but I'm not sure what to say if he asks
Facebook lol oh relationships. And your moving in with him in a few weeks? Or you moving in somewhere? You should talk to him though and explain your feelings, maybe he didn't realize he hurt you by going out. Idk.
Not with him, I'm moving out of town. I don't really care he went out, it just annoyed me we made plans far in advance, confirmed them that afternoon, then he proceeded to go to the bars instead. (like I said there's details I left out) I guess I'll just explain if he asks. I'm probably overthinking haha thanks to everyone answering
Well ok I'll add a few details then...I didn't want it to be some huge dragged out question lol I'm 20 and he's 21 (which he knows) and when we were supposed to be chilling, he texted me saying he was at the bar but "might bail" because it was dying down. I didn't respond since he knows I'm too young to get in, and he texted me an hour later saying it was picking back up. Maybe he simply forgot I was 20, but it seems unlikely since he's bought me liquor before/we've discussed it on many occasions Either way, I assumed the worse (plus my roommate didn't help any), but even if I was right I don't think deleting him was very mature. Oh well haha not much I can do now
Sounds like he's really sad about you leaving, IMO. If i lost a hot piece of ass like you, id turn bluish-grey and a thundercloud would appear over me and rain on me 24/7.
:\\ It was supposed to make you send me a pic of your naked boobs. Seriously though sounds like he's pissed that you're leaving and sad. The blowoff of your guys' alone-time probably is his way of dealing with the loss. I wouldnt think too much of it. Most men wont admit it, but we become attached very easily.
Yeah sounds like he doesnt want to waste time on you when you're going to leave in a week and is looking for something else. Why would you be so worried if you move in a week? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I337 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Just re add him. Sounds like you care about this guy. How far away from him are you moving? .................................................... I dont do drugs, I set plants on fire and breathe.
If a guy is drunk and has a chick to go hook up with he typically goes...unless he has another one serving the same need. Jmo. But who really cares, you're gone soon. Listening to your roommate was def dumb though, you acted pretty immature. Would be a big turnoff for me.