Don't you think thats a little selfish? You don't give head because YOU don't get pleasure out of it?
I kind of agree with what your saying, but dont you think it's selfish to want someone to do something that will make you happy, but not them? Just dont get her head until she gives you head.
Good point actually, but if it gets to the point where she refuses to even give it at all (like OP situation) then thats just selfish. If you love someone then you would do what it takes to make them feel good. Tyke said it well:
if you go down on her, you should probably stop that until she returns the favour. Also, tell her not to diss it until she tries it
do what you can. then leave. if you dont then she will just fuck you over at the worst possible time. its easiest to get what you can with no stress. then get out before you waste any more time.
What's so weird about a girl not being into it? And no, you don't have to try something to know that you won't like it. Some women don't find the thought of putting someone's penis in their mouth satisfying. Add the ejactulation aspect, and that just makes it worse. Just like some guys don't like going to town on their girl. What's the big deal? If I was with a guy, wanted him to go down on me, and he wasn't into it, SO THE FUCK WHAT? If he has valid reasons, then I'm not going to force him. And If I love him, how ridiculous would it be for me to leave him because he won't suck me off? Wtf? If he satisfies me in other ways, then I'll be fine. But if it's SUCH AN IMPORTANT ASPECT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP, then just find a girl who will be into it. But I don't get what the big deal is. There's a hell of a lot of reasons that a girl wouldn't do it.
Not a lot of girls don't enjoy giving blow jobs...She's one of them most likely. And there are some girls out there who don't like giving blow jobs, but do them anyway to please their guy. And you've only been dating for three months, you can't expect her to succumb to your every sexual need. Give the relationship some time, she might come around at one point or another. Also, this is usually how us girls work, what you do for us, we do for you. In most cases anyway.
May not be, but there are some guys who treat girls like shit because they don't get what they want from us, is that fair?