I recently started having sex regularly and I havent had much experience before this Im not bad or anything and in fact the sex we have is great after I bust my first nut today I knew she was coming over this morning for a quick sex session so trying to avoid getting off within in a minute I beat off about an hour before she came over once we get going I get the urge to cum instantly I dont know if its because of the shock to my senses of penetration but it just feels so good I tried controlling my breathing to calm myself down and closing my eyes and thinking of something else but it just dosnt work on my first nut so she asks if I got off and I say yeah, shes pretty much used to it now haha so its not really embarrassing its probably not that embarrassing because after a couple minutes and I get hard again we have great sex and she gets off several times before I do again the weird part is I can pretty much last as long as I want the second time like breathing techniques, thinking about other things if i get too excited, and focusing my attention to another part my body works great those techniques along with slowing down or hitting different spots work great and I can pretty much go until I stop doing those things what I dont get is why I cant do this the first time do you think its just nerves? is it in my head?
It's nature. Your body is hard-wired to pass on its genetic information, therefore you are programmed to blow your load as quickly as possible. After you've blown your first load, your body really wants to recharge, it thinks it has already impregnated the female, it's time for a rest, passing on your genetics is no longer an imperative, so you can last longer.
yeah, this is standard penis protocol. im surprised you were able to beat it for an hour and then still have an issue when you had sex. maybe ur gf/fuck buddy is super hot and does a ton of kegels and ur balls are just like, "fire torpedo tube 1!" as soon as you see her.
your simply new to the game. I rember when i first started id be lucky to last 2mins but after you get used to it (it took me a good 6months) You will go longer much longer on your first nut. If it really worries you then try condoms.
i mean this isnt that big of a problem since I can go right back into it like 2 mins later but itd be nice to keep the mood going and not pause as soon as it gets good i also wasnt sure if this happened regularly to other people looks like ill just have to keep practicing
Yea, after I bust my first nut my body just goes into lockdown and tries to transfer into sleep mood.
this whole thread so far made me laugh pretty hard... dude fuck it just cum that first time then tell her to get the fuck off and make you a sandwich...
i can bust fast sometimes....but i stay hard so i just keep fucking and nut again...multiple O's are for the winners.
If you're really good you can get multiple orgasms without busting, that's where the real winners are.
Just neck a couple of glasses of wine before she comes round. A bit of booze usually delays the first nut a lot. Then after that you can go like a trooper ðŸ‘
Tell her that you need to try something new. Once you say that, you lay her on the bed on her back, bring her neck just off the edge of the bed, then drop your pants and just slide your dick down her throat, maybe grab the back of her head while your at it.. You can buy numbing gel if shes got a bad gag reflex, but this is what i do to warm up and get all the precum loose, lol. Damn, i didn't realize how savage that shit is until just now, but them women love that primal savage shit.. Get crazy with it. I do have that same problem man, took me a while to get over it.. Sometimes ill still have it happen to me when the chicks a really good rider, she'll ride 2 or 3 loads right out of me in like 2 minutes, its wild.. Just enjoy it either way man.
Why's is embarrassing? Just wait a while and go at it again! Every now and then my bf and I will be fucking and he says after a few mins that he can't hold it and has to cum. Which I always like cause hey, means the pussy's good right? Haha We just wait a while, and go at it again later
Practice edging more, it will help. If I get too close I'll just pull out and bury my face down there for a few, keeps the pleasure going and gives you a sec to cool off.