Flirting and playful hand-touching

I work a part-time job on the weekend and feel like one of the girls there might be into me. We had a slow Friday so I went to the front to tell my manager I'm going to clean up my station. The girl was there only chilling and offered to help me clean, and we went off to where it was just the two of us talking and me cleaning while she mostly sat on the floor playing with the towel while talking to me so it wasn't like she was actually interested in cleaning. She found a rubber band on the ground and joked saying she thought she found a condom, which there could be nothing there, but joking about anything sexual seems kind of risky.


I don't know if I did the wrong thing, trying to focus on the cleaning part while she sat there but it was tempting to just join her anyway, but I felt like it could have gotten a little intense for me personally. I don't know why, maybe I could be imagining sexual tension but if it existed it probably could have escalated and get us in trouble. I did scale back the work a little bit to give her a little more attention and tried to find time for jokes as well.

Today I stopped by briefly and saw her. She was standing on this platform and when I went towards her she leaned over the railing to throw out both of her hands which I wasn't really sure what to do about (thought it would be a simple one-handed high-five) but I followed through and we kind of did this weird hand-play feely-touchy thing (hard to describe) which ended with me gently grabbing her arm but I let go when we stopped. It seemed pretty significant to me. We were basically feeling each others hands for a few seconds.


The truth is that I have no game. I'm a tall not-so-bad-looking guy, but to put it shortly, my early 20s and teen years was spent in a relationship I thought would last forever. So I haven't had much experience in single life or hooking up. I'm not too sure where to go from here, I suppose I can invite her for drinks? Here's some more truth, I'm a little bit intimidated by her looks and always-cheery attitude. I feel like she's all I've been thinking about lately. Tan, green eyes and wavy-blonde hair, man she drives me wild. I'm also pretty damn sure she didn't "accidentally" touch my dick with her hand while we were all dancing at the holiday party.


What would be an ideal way to handle this? Ice-skating, movie, drinks, Netlifx/chill? Where I'm getting at is I'd like to hookup with this girl (maybe dating too). I know she's a coworker but damn I just don't care right now. Do you guys have any experiences past or current that might be relatable?

 

Allow me to add on (about not having any game), I think I've always been a bit too nice but that's changing but I won't get into that now. Feel like I've written a book already guys.

 

Yeah I've heard that. Honestly though, this is a job I use to buy bud with not really pay bills or focus on career and I only see her maybe once a week or more (could be more) but the job thing does still make it a little harder. I also like to think I'm ok dealing with girls I've worked with who tried to hookup with me (one did leave but that's on her I think).


Thinking I will definitely make a move sooner or later. I want to have fun in my life right now and not look back with regrets.

 

Think I'll actually give her one as a gift on Valentine's Day

 

Would like to hear about it, did you get her number?

 

Good for you man. People will try to flirt with girlfriends regardless.