What does your SO do to make you smile?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by cashewmilk, Feb 3, 2016.

  1. Besides sexual things, what does your significant other do that makes you smile?

    I smile when she wears my tshirts when I come over. Idk why I like it, but I smile every time.

    Or when she cooks some good food. Ahh yes.
     
  2. has boobs - even after 10 years with her, boobs always make me smile
     
  3. My wife will always tear/cut her food I half.


    No matter how small a piece of bread you give her, she tears it in half.


    Always makes me smile.


    Oh and the way she completely loses it when any insect flies around her. It's hilarious. And it happens a lot because we live in a fucking swamp.

     
  4. That's a given lol. Does she have any quirks that you look back on and smile about?
     
  5. #5 cashewmilk, Feb 3, 2016
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    Have you ever asked her why she cuts her food in half? That's interesting/funny.
     
  6. Also, please don't tell me you live in Florida. She would just be screaming 92% of the time.
     


  7. I used to. We have been together long enough that all I do is smile and she knows why.


    She gets it from her mom. Just one of those things.


    When I first pointed it out to her it made her a little self conscious about it.


    Now, she'll see me smiling and just say "Oh shut up."




    Not only in Florida, literally on the edge of the everglades.
     
  8. You guys seem like a happy couple lol. *Toasts* May you be in love forever more!!!

    I lived in Orlando for awhile, and I can't imagine more Mosquitos than I've already seen. I would have moved years ago if I were her. Actually, I did lol. Vegas resident now.
     
  9. The way she talks in English haha she's Turkish so she sounds super cut omg


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  10. Lots of tings man every day he treats me like a queen.
     
  11. Just don't take it for granted. Not all guys are as understanding as him to be treating you so well.
     
  12. The way his voice sounds when he's telling a story or explaining something. He's so sure of himself. He's confident and the right amount of enthusiastic
     
  13. #13 Tonika, Feb 6, 2016
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    Oh I don't lol but I just can't see my self with any other guy. I am his ride or die bitch tbh!
     
  14. I smiled when I left her and gained full custody of my sons. No visitation rights for her. Its been almost 7 straight years of smiling.

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  15. #15 cashewmilk, Feb 8, 2016
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    I don't know the story, but growing up without a mom is tough, so you shouldn't be happy your kids don't get to have that. It may be her fault that it ended up this way, but that isn't the point.
     


  16. I don't know the story, but growing up without a mom is tough, so you shouldn't be happy your kids don't get to have that. It may be her fault that it ended up this way, but that isn't the point.
    </blockquote> You're absolutely right.....you don't know their mother. The state stepped in the day my last son was born and said here he's yours, she's a bad mom. I didn't have to do shit. So yes I'm extremely happy and smiling that my children are safe, secure, happy and healthy. They do way better w/o her. She was oding the day her water broke. Don't pass judgement when you know absolutely nothing. She wasnt the woman I met. :)


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  17. I wasn't passing judgement. I was just saying you shouldn't be happy that your kids are growing up without a mom. It's a sad thing. It may be her fault, but the situation is still kinda terrible and not something anyone should wish upon their children.
     


  18. Never said it was optimal did I? You're still passing judgement telling me I shouldn't be happy. The thread asks what makes you smile, therefore I stated what makes me smile. I didn't ask what makes you smile that cashewmilk agrees with. Look of course my children should have a mother, just not her. Switch rolls and everyone would say good for you for removing the father. Trust me your not the first person to judge my situation. Your just one of the few who did it without knowing anything. You still hardly know the story and tell me how I should feel. You're not me and I'm guessing your probably not a parent either. My children are safe happy and healthy to the best of my means. I can't help their mother turned into crap. I still don't know what happened. Everything was great. Our son was planned. Something just clicked in her head right after she found she was prego and I hardly didn't see her until a hospital in Chicago 2.5 hours away called me to say your child is coming today almost 2.5 months early. Other then that I put her thru rehab 3 times at a great financial burden to me. Almost $60gs each time. Insurance covered 50% up to $100,000. Sorry if it makes me smile that my children are safe and I've done a damn fine job raising them in the situation at hand. I'm their parent.

    Now please you're not going to change my mind. So lets move on. I'm still smiling

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  19. Killset, I respect you, your opinions, and your posts, but I wasn't saying you shouldn't be happy they don't have THEIR mother. I said you shouldn't be happy that they don't have ANY mother. And it is judgmental to say that, I agree now.
    I'm sure you're doing a great job and they'll grow up to be well rounded people who are successful, and that's thanks to you. I'm not taking that away from you. It's great that you don't have to deal with someone who doesn't care about themselves or their children or even you. I can agree with that as well.

    But look back to your childhood. Was your mom there? If she wasn't, I'm sorry for bringing up the topic, but if she was, just imagine the things they are missing out on that you got from your mom. I guess that doesn't matter though if you're willing to be both for your children.

    I guess I should have just stopped before I started.
     
  20. They only had 1 mother to have. It is what it is. It didn't work out. I don't dwell on it and make the best of the situation. I'm not the typical parent. They have the most amazing life I can give them and they're very well adjusted. They go to school w/ her other child and see what a mess he is. His life is horrible. Its very sad. His dad doesn't care. Mine appreciate what I've had too do. My oldest is to the age he understands. He has no love for her and sees the life she gave his half bro. We talk about it and he knows his life is better for the decisions that have been made. Yes I would be smiling more if they had an amazing mom but they don't. I did everything I could. We're a hardy bunch.

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