Should I tell my GF im a virgin??

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by KingScarface, Feb 19, 2013.

  1. Well I had been talking to this girl for a couple months and she became my girlfriend on Valentines and I know that pretty soon we're gonna have sex but the thing is that im an 18 year old virgin, so should i tell her or just keep it to myself?

    And the reason why was cause my ex GF was REALLY religious and didnt beleive in sex before marraige :mad:

    So should I tell her or not? I also have a small feeling shes gonna find out if I bust quick so any tips on not busting quick?
     
  2. Moments before the act tell her "be gentle, it's my first time" with a blush.
     
  3. Yes!!! U should tell her! If she really likes u..it wont matter n she can start teachin you the ropes (if shes that type of freaky girl) !
    But as far as the tips I cant help u there.............practice makes perfect :shrugs:
     
  4. Watch porn...and if you feel like you're gonna spurt slow down. She'll never know.
     
  5. Yes, tell her. :) I'd feel better sleeping with a guy if I knew he was a virgin (although I don't care either way). Just the reassurance that his dick hasn't been in any nasty pussies would make me feel better about it going in mine hahah. I never forgot the "You're having sex with everyone your partner has had sex with. blah blah blah" speech from high school. I've heard some girls say they would hate having sex with a virgin though because they would suck in bed.
     
  6. #6 KingScarface, Feb 19, 2013
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    Well its cause I usually tell her stories of stuff thats happened to me like I told her about this one time when I did a beer run,I just dont want her to think im a wuss or anything or a lame or something like that

    And I dont want her to think im not a man,not a man at all!
    This scene comes to mind
    That 70's Cartoon - YouTube
     

  7. :confused::confused:

    just talk to her about it. That's what a real man would do
     
  8. Shes not gonna think just cuz u havent had sex that ur not a man.. The only reason why some women dont wanna have sex with virgins are cuz they are unexperienced.. Not cuz they are not a man..
    But I agree wit the other girl that posted in here.. It wouldnt matter to me if u was a virgin.. I like to ne dominate anyways n could teach u what I like..
    Its not hard to fuck.. Just pay attention to what ur girl likes by her body movements
     
  9. I just dont want her to think im lousy in the sack its embarrassing
    And its also embarassing to tell her im a virgin
     
  10. My boyfriend was a virgin when he met me. Seventeen year old virgin. He's had girlfriends in the past, but like you, one was very religious and the other he hardly saw. When he met me, I had not the slightest idea he was a virgin. In fact, he never told me!

    We had sex...

    And honestly I didn't see a difference in the way he performed. Afterwards, he told me I took his virginity and I couldn't help but laugh. I thought it was adorable, and well, we've been going out for almost three years now. Though I do wish he would've told me before, but I assume he was also a bit nervous.

    Truth is, we don't care if you're a virgin or not, our only 'worry' (if you can even call it that) is that you may be inexperienced. But if she truly loves you, why should she care? She can show you things she likes, she can tell you and be supportive...I think you should tell her. It shouldn't be very embarrassing if you trust her. I'm sure you'd like her to come out and say something like that to you, right?

    Also, how are you going to be lousy in the sack if you never fucked before? How would you know? My boyfriend thought he would be too...but he was fine. And of course, practice makes perfect--it'll always get better. I say let her know, it's not as embarrassing as you may think. :)
     
  11. I just dont want her to be like "OMG Youre a virgin!?" y'know?
    I just dont want to lose the respect she has for me And if I were to tell her when and how should i tell her
     
  12. Man, don't mention it unless she asks. And if she does ask, lie. Most girls today will think less of you for being a virgin.

    Might sound messed up, but its the truth.
     
  13. Thanks I think im gonna do this, but if I turn out to be kinda good at it i think ill mention it to her lol
     


  14. If she loses respect for you over that, then she's a raging cunt.

    More likely she'll be relieved that she doesn't have to compete with any previous sexual partners, and that she'll get to be your best sex ever so far! :p
     
  15. If it bothers you that much then don't tell her--who cares? You're 18, you're probably only going to go out with her for several months anyway. And worrying about how you'll perform is just a waste of time; just think about it in it's most basic form; you're sticking your dick in a hole--how many ways can you fuck that up? Playing pool is harder than sex and it only takes 15 minutes to master the basics of pool.
     
  16. If she loses respect for you..she may not be the girl of you dreams, as unfortunate as that sounds. Girls--we love sex. But to break up with a guy because hes a virgin is beyond shallow. If anything, having sex with a virgin is wonderful. Not only are you STD free but if you both are looking for a serious relationship, it's very pure. She can rest easy at night knowing her baby is hers and has been hers alone.

    So if she says things that are rude about you being a virgin, clearly she isn't looking for anything but sex and doesn't care about you as a person.

    I think you should let her know whenever you're ready. I'm hoping her reaction is a positive one--as most girls react positively from what I've heard from friends. I say you slide it into casual conversation next time you're with her and the topic of sex arises. Calmly explain to her about your ex and why you weren't able to if she inquires.
     

  17. Think less of someone for not sexing everything that walks? :rolleyes: come on now. I think girls would like it more that you havnt had sex with anyone but what do I know, im not a girl.

    I lost it before freshman year of high school but still have respect for people that have waited. You shouldnt buy in to acting like a typical guy. Be yourself... those who act like something they're not are not real men at all
     
  18. This is not the truth with all girls.
     
  19. I wouldn't tell her unless it came up. Probably just better left unsaid
     
  20. communication is the key to great sex, virgin or not.
     

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